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Frustrated and fed up

(5 Posts)
amiwierd Mon 15-Sep-08 17:51:55

I have a broken fanjo and have absolutely no sex drive whatsoever.sad

Also my vulva is sore and dry compared to normal, making any sex I do fancy painful and nigh on imposssible.
Things have been like this for several months now since I had my coil removed.
I also have had pain from episiotomy site for 3 years and DH says I feel tighter now than prior to childbirth.

DH is obviously getting very frustrated as used to have a good and full sex life

Can anyone shed any light on this, I am getting very low now as Even on the rare occasions I fancy sex we cant manage it due to pain no matter how much lube we use.

Pheebe Mon 15-Sep-08 17:57:43

You need to see your GP and get a referral to an ob/gynae consultant. You need to get your repair checked and your hormone levels assessed as a first step. It may be something physical that can be fixed and once the 'fear/worry' of pain is gone you'll hopefully find your libido starts to come back.

amiwierd Mon 15-Sep-08 18:01:03

What would the hormone level thing be for?

Pheebe Mon 15-Sep-08 20:08:11

They may want to check things like thyroid hormone levels (can affect libido)

Pheebe Mon 15-Sep-08 20:09:15

btw sorry for blunt answer before, was about to do the bedtime run smile

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