ok i have to have an operation on my shoulder tomorrow- under a general - and i am scared!

[nowwearefour]

please say some nice things to me! i wont be able to pick up dds (3 and 1) for some time and i am really dreading the whole thing

[cocolepew]

Aw good luck I know you'll be fine milk it as long as you can. It will be better in the long run if you need to have an op now.

[missingtheaction]

it is natural to be scared but very soon it will be all over and you will feel wonderful again. hugs

[psychomum5]

you will be fine

and you can milk it have lots of sympathy for agggggggggggges!!!

[nowwearefour]

thank you. hadnt thought of this milking it theme but it seems like good advice!

[psychomum5]

oh yes, milking it is the one upside of an operation.

that and new books, lots of chocs, and the inability to cope with any noise and so the kiddies need entertaining out of the house at all times possible......and the house should be as spotless as poss to ensure you feel no need to move from your pit comfy spot on the settee.

I have had lots of practice!