Help - I am obsessed with my small breasts...

[LittleDorrit]

Not sure if this belongs on here, or on style and beauty.
Basically I guess I am just looking for some opinions/advice...
I am just really obssessed by the fact that my breasts are too small and keep thinking that if only I had cosmetic surgery to make them bigger I would feel so much happier about myself. I am quite petite and before having a baby I was a small 32B but was reasonbly happy with that - I would have preferred to be bigger, but it was never an issue for me. But post pregnancy I have gone down to 32A and I feel that no man could ever find me attractive because of the size of my breasts. I did think about having surgery, but I know that there are risks associated with it, and complications, etc. so that puts me off - I guess I am concerned that if I go ahead I might regret it. I made a decision a few weeks ago to just forget about the surgery and focus on my "good bits", but it just keeps bugging me. What do you think??

[wrinklytum]

It is YOU a guy will be interested in if he is any kind of decent bloke, big breasts or nay.Do it for YOU if it makes you happier,not a man!!

Signing off,fairly flat chested Wrinkly..

[LittleDorrit]

Thanks Wrinkly !
I think that's the problem - that if I am really, really honest with myself it's probably not about wanting to do it for myself, but wanting guys to look at me and think "wow, she has really sexy breasts".

[wrinklytum]

D'you know its really funny,I went through a stage in my twenties wishing I was better endowed in the norks department,and the other day I was talking to a mate who has fantabulously large norks who always says she wishes she had smaller norks cos hers cause her back pain...the grass is always greener huh?I would rather a guy would think "Wow shes a really sexy person" as an all round perspective not just in terms of norkage

[notasheep]

Sexy breasts can be small and pert and lovely
i waiver between a 34AA and 32B

[morningpaper]

I was once having tea with a 30-stone Irish priest who informed me "any more than a mouthful is plenty!" which regarding my tiny bosoms

I'm not sure what the moral of the story is, but I found his praise highly reassuring

He was de-frocked shortly after

Morningpaper (34A)

[LongLiveGreenElizabeth]

I'm an A and I could not give a HOOT. I don't feel that people notice. I may be coasting along on a wave of denial!

[wrinklytum]

PMSL at MP

[LongLiveGreenElizabeth]

Seriously......... I wouldn't feel tht a man who loved big boobs was 'my type'. I mean,that bloke that Melinda Messenger was married to, he's probably a boob man.

Lol at the priest commenting on how much boob is enough!!!!

[LittleDorrit]

Morningpaper - you have made me giggle !

[morningpaper]

He struck me as a man who knew quite a lot about mouthfuls

The main problem with small bosoms is making sure you haev more bosom than tummy

It's so annoying when your belly sticks out further than your chest

[lazaroulovesleggings]

My boobs are small as well. I prefer them that way. YOu can wear tops without bras.

[cheesesarnie]

i go from not caring about non boobs to it bothering me.
can i ask all other norkless people do you wear padded bra etc?i do so i feel i have 'something' and think it looks bit better but than i think why bother!

[morningpaper]

I can't wear tops without bras

I need padding

and underwires

and mirrors

and possibly Derren Brown walking 10 feet in front of me

[LongLiveGreenElizabeth]

Yes, MP, I have tiny boobs but huge incentive to keep stomach flat.

I think big boobs look matronly tbh. I'd rather be normal sized, but if I had to pick small or big, definitely small.

[cheesesarnie]

someone told me if i stood on my head id have perfect figure .

[Orinoco]

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[LittleDorrit]

I like to have a slightly padded bra, but not too much, so that I don't feel like I am being dishonest with everyone !

[cheesesarnie]

id feel silly going to be fitted for a bra with nothing there.

[morningpaper]

I wear PADDING

the only trouble is that you have to have a lot of padding at both top and bottom, otherwise you end up with a shelf effect where your bra stops and nothing starts....

[LittleDorrit]

Thank you ladies - you have made me feel much better ! I guess I just needed some moral support and confirmation that going under the knife might not be the answer.
I will start doing some pilates to tone all my other bits and, as Orinoco suggested, get some nice and well fitting bras.

[lazaroulovesleggings]

I used to wear a padded bra and then one of the padded bits came out and the bloke I was talking to said 'What's that?'

[Hannah81]

My boobs are lopsided! I BF DS1 for 15mths but only on my left side, so that one is considerably bigger than the other, but so what - I fed my DS for 15mths! I'm now feeding my DS2 who is 11wks old.

For me, breasts are for feeding babies - big small, lopsided (mine), pert (many moons ago now), gravitationally influenced (mine)! They provide a very important service and even though they are mishapen now, I'd never do anything to them, I'm proud of them for what they've done for me. I wish others could feel like this, I am truly blessed.

I do hate that people oversexualise them - and maybe reducing this will help women feel happier about what they have.

My thoughts are with you, but try to love them for what they are - it's a lot cheaper and a lot less painful!

[morningpaper]

I hve a big array of fabulous padded and wired miracle-bras

I would spend money on that first

[BreeVanderCampLGJ]

MorningPaper autographed my boob at the Christmas party.

[morningpaper]

there was a generous amount of boobage to be signed, IIRC