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It's impossible to know without undergoing some pretty grim tests (here speaks the voice of experience). And [puts on Voice of Doom} even if things 'seem' ok now in terms of control, their may well be latent damage from childbirth which will only show up later in life. the only solution is to do your pelvic floor exercises every single day of your life, for the rest of your life.
Many women have no idea they have issues until middle age hits, the menopause kicks in and the hormonal change causes muscles all over the body to weaken including, of course, the pelvic floor.
So, preventative action is the way forward to avoid those Tena Lady moments.
BBBee - funny you should ask this. I've just started pilates and the health questionnaire asked be to grade my pelvic floor. I gave it an 8, but tbh I think I was being a bit harsh. Didn't want to be accused of favouritism.