Hi all. Bear with me on this as it's long but I'll try and précis it all! BIL has had a back injury for 18 months which worsened significantly recently and he's now signed off work. At weekend he lost bladder and bowel control so was hospitalised. He's had no treatment bar painkillers and had MRI to check the nerve situation. It's not totally pinching the disc (?). He's catheterised as no sensation of weeing but he's being passed from neuro to orthopaedics and back and now they're sending home with an instruction not to go upstairs (he's been on bed rest ) and a commode, but nothing else by way of a plan. His parents my in-laws are frail but talking about buying a new bed for downstairs and want my DH to set it up. This all seems mental to me. Nothing will change will it if he doesn't have surgery or manipulation of some sort like chiropractor?? I get that the NHS can only do so much but is it normal to expect a house refit but no onward care plan or news of what they'll do next ? As we can't visit it's hard to get a clear story and he is mildly disadvantaged by having issues with processing info and communicating (has dyspraxia) What can I do/ who can I ring fo find out what's happening? PALS? Are they a thing still? His GP? In-laws are very upset and too old to be dealing with this. Any help would be appreciated. Thank you!
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Help BIL in hospital - loss of bladder control with back injury
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Glassbackhelp · 15/07/2020 17:48
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