I know this sounds awful but I am very worried about the family memeber involved. They do have a conplex physical helath need. Think diclocation/seizure. What happens a lot is they say something has happened with there physical helath using all the terminology they know etc this means they get the treatment for this involving ambulances sometimes fire, drugs etc. We get to hospital run test and evreythings fine. A lot of the time it happens where no ones sees. It's been the same growing up so me and my brother used to be able to tell when it was about to happen always in similar positions in awkaward situations. Never just in middle of floor but in lift, bathroom, plane. It was hell growing up. When it happens we all go along with it as we know if we appaorched the subject we could be putting ourselves up to abuse. But recently it has been happening more the family memeber has been using more explicit non prescription and prescription drugs. Some of these drugs they have gotten by saying about pain that they can't say Deffintly isn't happening, even though many of us believe it isn't. This has included ketamine. At the moment they are saying they may die and a bunch of other mecial stuff that dosent quite add up. Some medical professional have said they don't believe it all to be genuine but haven't followed it up. They have started to go to other hospitals where people don't know them. Of course we can't say it Deffintly isn't happening it's just the mechanism, time how test results come back normal etc. We don't know if it is conscious or unconscious. We believe it for attention/drugs. I don't know how to broach the subject and with what professional they need help and to stop harming there body. I know this may sound horrible but it's been a very diffcuilt thing to deal with
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I strongly believe a family member is feigning major medical problems, what do I do ?
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ohsotrying · 27/06/2020 23:06
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