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Steve not very well at all today, Doctor has just been out to him

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onlyjoking9329 · 08/09/2007 20:56

he was in a lot of pain yesterday which has not improved today. he is much more confused so it is difficult to find out what is going on. his sight is much worse too and he is quite wobbly.
The doctor phoned the hospital and talked to them about it. the doc has given him a morphine injection and he is to go back on the steriods, which he has just been weaned off. the doctor will phone in the morning to see how he is. he is tucked up in bed now.

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emkana · 08/09/2007 20:57

I'm sorry to hear that, hope he feels better soon.

Blandmum · 08/09/2007 20:57

Oh, shit, shit, shit

What are they doing for his pain on a more regular basis?

emkana · 08/09/2007 20:57

How are you keeping?

controlfreakybackfromherhols · 08/09/2007 20:57

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you must be v worried oj. it all sounds really hard physically an emotionally. thinking of you. hope tomorrow is better for you all.

expatinscotland · 08/09/2007 20:57

Oh, joking. I'm sorry to read this.

I wish you a restful night.

BreeVanDerCampLGJ · 08/09/2007 20:58

Oh sweeheart...

When this episode passes you need to get all the legal stuff in place.

Sorry to sound harsh, but it will be easier in the long run. Wish I was closer.

LilyLoo · 08/09/2007 20:58

Oh Oj i am so sorry , i really dont know what to say, are you on your own now ? Are the dc's in bed?

kid · 08/09/2007 20:59

really sorry to hear that, hope the morphine helps him have a comfortable night and that the Dr/hosp can do more for him tomorrow

kitsandbits · 08/09/2007 20:59

How are you?

I hope Steve has a peaceful night x

Blandmum · 08/09/2007 20:59

Do you have direct access to the oncology unit, or do you have to go via your GP?

That have given dh a 'Green Card' that less us bypass all the hold ups, and get him treated asap. Did you have to wait a long time for the doc to come?

onlyjoking9329 · 08/09/2007 21:00

they didn't mention long term pain relief, but they will need to do something as i can't manage like this, it is so sad to see him suffering but yet not be able to tell me about it.

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berolina · 08/09/2007 21:02

I hope his night is comfortable.

LilyLoo · 08/09/2007 21:04

OJ i really think he needs his steroids for the pain and to keep him more comfortable and stable. Hopefully they will be able to sort something out with them tommorrow.

Blandmum · 08/09/2007 21:04

Sweetheart, you have to. We got in the same situation and I remember just how awful it was. Dh was writing in pain and vomiting bile. It was wait 4 hours for the doc to come or phone an ambulance, so I rang 999.

It was the worst point in this whole horrible time. I felt so scared and powerless, and sick with worry for dh, and simply didn't know what to do. THis was before we were linked up with the macmillan team.

And they sorted out the pain and the nausea. And Lyn was 100% sure that they would, and they did.

You *have to get this in place darling.

god i wish there were something I could do for you.

onlyjoking9329 · 08/09/2007 21:04

the kids are in bed, i got them off to bed at 7 as didn't want them upset, phoned the doc at 7 he came very quickly.
steve had his op almost five weeks ago, i am thinking that regrowth has started

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Callmemadam · 08/09/2007 21:05

Oj, I am so sorry - wish there was something I could DO for you both but there isn't anything... just here for you....

Blandmum · 08/09/2007 21:08

OJ, you know I'm not one to sugar coat this topic but atm you don't know that there is re-growth. and as we both know, even if there is, there is nothing either of us can do about it. But his pain and discomfort can be sorted.

God what a bastard disease

Ellbell · 08/09/2007 21:09

I am so sorry to hear this, OJ. I am sending you love and strength. I hope Steve manages to rest tonight.

LilyLoo · 08/09/2007 21:11

oj can you contact Mcmillan on Steves behalf now even though he isn't keen this is too much for you to do on your own and they are fabulous.

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Blandmum · 08/09/2007 21:13

I can understand that steve doesn't want the macmillan people involved, but you can keep going like this. It is too much for you (or anyone) to cope with alone.

and if he feels better, both of you can deal with the situation more effectivly

onlyjoking9329 · 08/09/2007 21:13

i am thinking regrowth as he has got much worse over the last few days we know it will regrow but don't know how quickly.
i am hoping that the steriods will help.

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Budababe · 08/09/2007 21:14

Oh God OJ. Am so so sorry. You must feel so helpless.

It really really is a bastard disease.

Blandmum · 08/09/2007 21:15

I know that all tumours vary, but the doctor told us that when dh's tumours start to grow the timescale will be as it was at the start of the symptomes. I'm not sure if that helps you at all

But you can't deal with this. I know just how horrible it is and how awful it feels

klavecimbeldrager · 08/09/2007 21:16

very sorry to read this oj
sending love and wishing you strength
HC xx

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