Hello all and thanks in advance for any help you can all give me.
I am with an amazing girl who I love very much and would never give up on despite only having been with her for six weeks, however she (we) are suffering very badly, she has very bad mood swings whilst she is coming up to her period that start from approx 10 days beforehand, no physical violence but just continous verbal abuse, shouting, swearing, telling me she wants me to go, I do not react at all and just go and keep clear of her (is this not the best thing?) and then come the next day, midday she MIGHT apologise by text or phone, she might not, however when we see each other when we finish work she is normally nasty to me again. This lasted 10 days and then come Saturday afternoon, she snapped out and was her amazing self again.
I was so happy and she was very apologetic and I thought we would have another nice span of weeks, I was wrong, come Monday morning, she was offish, she sent a text message saying we should see less of each other and only meet on specific days which broke my heart, I cooked her a nice meal for when she came home and still expected her to be out of the 'possessed' state but when she came in, she was very off with me, didn't touch me once or kiss or say anything infact, I managed to tread on egg shells the rest of the evening and come this morning she was still very off, not wanting to kiss goodbye etc.
She is due to have an endometriosis operation in four weeks time and we are both hopeful that this can potentially clear up some of the problem, she is 34 and doesn't want anymore children.
What can I do? I would like to perhaps keep this thread going with how I get on if that's ok with all of you? I hope this can help others as well.
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