DS, 25, is suffering very badly from now almost daily headaches - and often several a day. Talks of flashes of light so there are some suggestions that some of these, at least, may be more like migraines. Talking the most powerful meds he can get over the counter ie with high/ish doses of codeine.
In his mid teens, he had lots of time off school because of headaches which we though could be attributed to a RTA he had when he was 10 - much of the pain seemed to eminate from the side of the face that was hit. Many, many visits to clinicians and finally someone (from the Migraine Centre) said that as he's hypermobile, it was probably neck headache. At some point, things calmed down with only occasional flare-ups.
But now, here he is and he will not see a GP, claiming that there's nothing that could be done. He's living at home, hasn't worked for several weeks and certainly isn't in a frame of mind to look for work and, if he did, how long would he last with these regular bouts of pain?
So, of course, I am really worried on that score but especially that he is in so much pain and won't, however hard I try to persuade him, see a doctor. I've told him that you can't carry on indefinately with these meds without medical advice, that they are potentially addictive etc. And that if there is a causal link with what happened 15 years ago, that needs (re) exploring.
DS doesn't help himself by, eg, skipping meals and spending ages on his laptop in a darkened room (because of the headaches). We seem to be going round in circles.
If anyone has any idea of how I might persuade him/any suggestions in the meantime, I'd be grateful. Silly questions, I know, but I'm at a loss.
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DS, 25, very bad headaches & reluctant to see GP
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Eleanor09 · 12/11/2017 16:13
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