pre period heat

[PassiveAgressiveQueen]

For 3 or 4 nights before my period my torso is sweating hot, we are talking hot flush. BUT my legs and feet are freezing cold, it is freezing up north.
I can't push the duvet down as my husband gets chilly, other than going to bed fully dressed for a snow walk on my lower half has anyone any suggestions?

[SuckingEggs]

Separate duvets on the same bed. We do it. So much easier and less disturbance!

[PassiveAgressiveQueen]

He didn't seem to like that, it received silence.

[patterkiller]

Stuff what he wants. You're uncomfortable and not sleeping. Get your own duvet and fling it on and off to your hearts desire.

[PassiveAgressiveQueen]

He is insisting i print a retraction, pointing out it was 12:45 and was trying to go to sleep

[guidinglight]

We have a thin double duvet, and then a thick single duvet which I use on top (I'm the cold one). When we're both fighting over the extra one we switch to a thicker one. Would that be an option as you'd still be sleeping under the same duvet, but he could have a thicker layer?

[PassiveAgressiveQueen]

I did it today, bought a winter single duvet so my legs can be warm but my upper body can be uncovered, of course i no longer need it for the next month :)

[PassiveAgressiveQueen]

Now i am shivering, just whining.

[SuckingEggs]

Tell him to grow up. Or it's separate beds.