Fed up of falling apart

[Blueberry234]

Just that really. I know people have it worse than me but all my issues are starting to get me down I can't even be the fun active parent I wanted to be. Over the last few years I have been diagnosed with a non radiographic axial spondylitis, b12 deficiency, osteoporosis, my shoulder needs another decompression and now hyperparathyroidism. I am in constant pain, can only take paracetamol which does nothing, I only sleep for a few hours very broken due to pain, I have very young kids I physically struggle with. Am just fed up and needed a moan

[2016Hopeful]

Sorry you are feeling rubbish Blueberry. I don't really have anything useful to say but wanted to sympathize. Must be very hard to be in pain all the time, especially with young children.

Try not to worry about not being the fun mum you want to be all the time. I don't think anyone ever is to be honest. Your children will love you just for being there for them.

[Pleasemrstweedie]

Here's a B12 deficiency group on FB. Lots of expertise here. Are you having injections?

www.facebook.com/groups/174928999276739/

Is your parathyroid condition hyper, or hypo? if it's actually hypo, there's another patient group here:

hypopara.org.uk/home.php