I am having a pretty shocking month. I haven't got the energy to name change after my last emotional hurdle. Today I had a call from my step father than my mother's neurological condition looks most likely to be motor neurone disease. She has had MRIs, brain scans, peripheral nerve conductivity tests, blood tests, dna tests - the lot. It started 3 months ago with weakness in her arm, she laughed about it. It spread to her other arm within about a month and then her legs started feeling weak too. She then stopped being able to lift a cup to drink and had to use a straw, and now, 3 months on from first symptoms, she is bedbound (albeit partly with depression) has lost a stone, and things really are not looking good.
The results from her nerve conductivity test cannot conclude MND outright but very much lead us towards it. Is it possible to diagnose outright?
I'm still in shock- day one of finding out. I guess I'm asking for anyone's experience with this and how on earth to deal with it. I was feeling pretty broken before this, am worried I'm just not going to cope. How do you cope with a diagnosis of a terminal disease with a parent? What do people do to 'take each day as it comes'? How is everyone else so brave? I feel so completely devastated.
I live over 600 miles away so cannot easily drop in but plan to visit as much as I can if she will allow it (so far has wanted us to stay away as she's too emotional). She is not dealing with it well (nor would I), and the last thing I want is to be emotional and set her back even further.
I'm just not ready to accept she is dying.
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Please help - mum today diagnosed with Motor Neurone Disease (long post)
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Ohdeargawd · 12/11/2015 19:26
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