I have no idea where to put this thread, so hoping this is a good space?
It's just dawned on me over the past week, I think DH may be autistic. I guess I'm wondering if other people think I'm on to something based on his behaviour.
He doesn't have any friends. None. He isn't very good at social interaction. He doesn't like lots of people and crowds. He says he's never felt the need to have friends and is happy on his own. He doesn't handle his emotions well and will occasionally have aggressive/angry bursts. This is never physical to me but I get upset by the outbursts and DH has never been able to understand that his behaviour has an effect on me. To him, the emotion has left his system and it's my issue if I'm upset by it not his and he doesn't seem very bothered about my upset (which in turn upsets me more!). I take an interest in how his day was etc, he doesn't very much to me, or if he does it's sometimes asking for the purposes of feeling he should ask rather than if he's interested. He isn't great with knowing what emotionally I need, and I'll often have to ask him or tell him what I need from him.
BUT, isn't obsessional about facts, can't remember things in that way. He doesn't have a collection of things of be fanatical about anything in particular. I always thought he was just funny with emotions etc but never really thought he couldn't see things from other peoples perspectives. Now I wonder if he can see things from other people's perspectives but more from the view that the other person is like him perhaps in the way they think and see things and if they aren't he isn't sure quite how to deal with that.
Gah, looking at the facts now I can't believe I haven't thought or accepted this may be the case sooner. How does it look to you? And where on earth do I go from here?
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It just hit me, I think DH is autistic
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Reastie · 09/11/2014 07:36
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