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Binge Eating - what do I say and who do I ask get help to overcome this?

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DareIGetHelpWithThis Thu 27-Mar-14 16:46:57

I do not know where to turn - have tried gp several times regarding my long term and serious weight problem.

If I had bulimia or anorexia they would maybe have some idea where to start with me but they just suggest I need to remember its all about 'priorities', or try slimming world etc.

It is not that I don't know how to eat healthily or follow a diet, I do and can if my head is in the right place (lost and regained the same 6 stones around 4 times) but after twenty yearns of this it is clear to me that something else is the problem.

I think emotion related binge eating is the closest description I can come up with. Given the possible health consequences of being over 40 BMI this is serious.

I have a responsible job, am a confident sounding communicator in general but I don't know how to ask for help, what sort of help or where to find it. I despair about his issue, though in general I don't think I am depressed I do have low self esteem but is that a cause or a consequence. I don't like to admit I need help but there it is, I do.

Can anyone give my any positive suggestions of what to do please?

DareIGetHelpWithThis Thu 27-Mar-14 21:08:28

Bumping to see if anyone can help, please

Perfectlypurple Thu 27-Mar-14 21:10:41

There is an eating disorder recovery thread on the new blog posts topic.

I am like you. I am going to get a book callef overcoming binge eating and try to get my head sorted.

SilverStars Thu 27-Mar-14 21:12:56

Have you tried a SW group? I only say that because I am finding having the support of a group really helpful (I have not said I have issues with food), but realisng many people sabotage their weight and meeting with others for the image therapy side of it is helpful - much more so than the healthy eating plan.That in itself can be helpful.

That book sounds a useful idea too.

ohnoppp Thu 27-Mar-14 21:15:44

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

DareIGetHelpWithThis Thu 27-Mar-14 22:18:55

Thanks for responding.
I will try to find the eating disorder thread.

I have tried slimming groups maybe 10, 15 or more times, including once this year. I have all the membership cards with stickers and proof of how much I can loose angry Despite being an apparently confident and outgoing person in many situations . . . In a slimming group I simply can not interact, I can't, I don't know why. Embarrassment, disgust in my apparent greed, the out thereness of my inability to deal with this I just don't know. I almost feel now, after the last attempt, sort of phobic to these groups.

I need to stop the binging not talk about what and how to cook. I don't know how to stop the binging sad

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