Hi everyone. My wonderful partner had a massive stroke a week ago. He is now out of the high dependency unit but currently severely disabled and will need intensive long-term inpatient rehabilitation, almost certainly for many months. It has been a torrid time and one of my few unequivocally positive thoughts has been that we are lucky he is in a hospital that is very easy for us to get to so that we are all able to see him frequently and will be able to continue doing so during the long recovery process. We have a 4 year old and 2 teenage boys, no car (and I don't drive), I usually work full time, etc and frankly the thought of getting to a hospital 2 bus rides away minimum with a walk at either end and in between is making everything seem even more daunting. Our trip to the current hospital takes about 5 minutes on the train and is also very close to my office and on the trainline from both my boys' schools.
The move is not being planned for clinical care reasons (if it was obviously we would just accept the decision without question) but because there is some kind of London stroke pathways agreement (We are in London, btw) and our postcode says that he should go to this particular hospital, even though it is considerably further away and out of borough and the same care (possibly slightly better even as it is a centre of excellence for stroke) is available right where he is. Additionally he is under the heart failure team in this current hospital (heart failure caused the stroke) and they have been visiting him regularly on the ward.
The ward manager seemed more than a little pissed off when I was not in agreement with the plan as he had rung to TELL me that he was being moved today and was not expecting me to object. As there is no PALS service running at weekends they have agreed to keep him in over the weekend and I will have a meeting with his consultant on Monday morning and can access PALS afterwards if the outcome remains that they are insisting on him being transferred. Does anyone have any advice? Does he/do we have any rights to choose where he is treated? If not is there any discretion for them to allow him to stay where he is and would our situation be likely to meet the discretionary threshold, iyswim? Is there anyone I can approach for help/to advocate for us?
Many thanks for any advice.
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My partner has had a stroke and they want to move him to a hospital quite a bit further away from our home. Is there anything we can do to stop this?
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AcrylicPlexiglass · 08/02/2014 17:40
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