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HELP! Has my daughter got Interstitial Cystitis/Painful Bladder Syndrome?

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carolineinthegarden Thu 02-Jan-14 19:58:29

Hi everyone, I'm new to this - I hope I'm doing it right.
I read some useful stuff on here about interstitial cystitis but it's all quite old and I wonder if anyone has got some current thoughts to share.
My daughter is 19 and she had bacterial cystitis twice last autumn. Ever since the second time she feels she needs to urinate ALL THE TIME. Not just frequent, but every second of every day (no pain though, just the ultimate in discomfort). She has had four urine cultures which came back negative for bacteria, but the symptoms don't go away.
We have tried homoeopathy, acupuncture and herbal medicine (from old recommendations I found on here) alongside all the normal tests (STI screening; ultrasound; x-ray; blood test). Not yet had the cystoscopy as we fear it might just make everything worse. She is now on a strict, mainly vegetable diet, and has not had any sugary stuff or caffeine/alcohol for almost 2 months.
We are all feeling despairing. The prognosis for IC patients seems very bleak and we don't want to admit that this might be her life from now on.
Does anyone have any idea what might work, or how long things like diets might take to make a difference?

nmg85 Wed 10-Jan-18 22:59:02

Been awhile since anyone has posted but still around if need to talk :-)

SJP135 Mon 24-Jul-17 13:18:16

Hello. I know this is a really old thread but I'm going through exactly the same problems and would love to know the outcome of the posters condition and if she got a diagnosis? Also to Silviaz22 I would be happy to chat smile

Silviaz22 Fri 19-May-17 00:40:43

Hi Rosie !
I know this is Soooo old , I just read all this story ,some how they kind of helped me a lot , but yet I can't help to wonther how are u now ? I wish to know if you found more pices of this crazy puzzle ?
I wish also to share my storiy ,
But I don't know if anyone it's still here ?
If so I ll will do ,
Defenatly in need of some help 🙏🏻
All the best

nmg85 Mon 19-Oct-15 14:45:43

Hi Rosie,

Sorry for my delay in replying!

Congrats on graduating you must be so proud! A degree is hard enough with out adding in IC as well.
The wedding was lovely, a small flare in the afternoon but nothing major. The day went v v quick!
Hope you are enjoying life out of uni xx

carolineinthegarden Fri 24-Jul-15 09:47:26

Hi everyone!

I'm so sorry it's been such a long time since I updated this thread. I've finished uni now and graduated with my first class degree (yay!) so hopefully things will calm down a bit now. My bladder has largely been quite good - I still have urgency, frequency and retention, but they're no way near as bad as they used to be. I actually managed to sit through my two hour graduation ceremony without being too uncomfortable, which I thought would be impossible a year ago.

nmg85, I'm dying to know how your wedding went, so please update us if you get a chance.

Hello Lindsey42 smile I'm so sorry that you've been suffering with bladder symptoms from such a young age, but I'm delighted that your IC has gone into remission. I find it immensely reassuring to hear stories about people for whom pregnancy didn't make their bladder worse, as I'd sort of resigned myself to the fact that having children would be impossible, or at least immensely painful, for me. Thanks for the information about diet - as much as I miss caffeine, alcohol, fruit etc., I am determined to stick to my strict elimination diet as it seems to be helping somewhat. I might look into getting a proper heating pad, too, as at the moment I only use a small hot water bottle occasionally. Thanks for the recommendation about Doctor Mirleman, too. Unfortunately, I'm based in Kent in the UK so he might be a bit far afield for me! However, I'm happy to put my faith in my medical herbalist at the moment, as whatever she's doing, it seems to be working.

Sending all the best to anyone/everyone who still reads this thread. I hope you're all as well as you can be and that you've found the right healing path for you.

Rosie xxxx

Lindsey42 Tue 23-Jun-15 12:40:03

I have read bits and pieces of threads on interstitial cystitis . I am 42 and I was first diagnosed at the age of 19. I am fortunate that my interstitial cystitis went into remission after I had children . I can tell that you do have to avoid caffeine all cost and anything acidic. I use to sit on heating pads to help relieve pain. One doctor I can recommend is doctor simon mirleman in Birmingham , alabama. He is one of the top urologist that deals with interstitial cystitis. The is a website called ic help that has a list of foods to eat and avoid , along with items you can buy to help with ic. Diet is the key and the right doctor. I hope this helps.

nmg85 Sat 02-May-15 10:40:05

Awww thanks Rosie :-) It is tomorrow so on the countdown in hours! I am hoping it behaves as well but then it only needs to last 20 min really. Hope you are well? xx

carolineinthegarden Sat 02-May-15 09:44:11

Hello, nmg85 smile

By my calculations, your wedding should be any day now, so I just want to wish you the very best of luck with everything. I hope that it's a really special day and that your bladder behaves itself.

Please let me know how it goes, and CONGRATULATIONS! grin

Rosie xxxx

nmg85 Tue 07-Apr-15 12:08:00

Hi carolineinthegarden

Sorry to hear you are having a stressful time. Yes the wedding is just over 3 weeks away so trying to keep calm and complete the last bits. My bladder is up and down, i do find the osteopath helps me. I managed to do a 2 hour car journey the other day with only 1 stop which is big progress from a year ago.

Hope things improve for you soon :-)

carolineinthegarden Fri 03-Apr-15 23:13:41

Happy Easter everyone! tbusmile

Just a quick message to say hello and let you all know that I'm doing okay, all things considered. I've been having major problems with my long-term boyfriend, am busy writing the final essays for my degree and have been doing a lot of cleaning and clearing out as our house has just gone on the market. Because of this, it's not really surprising that my bladder is playing up a bit after a really good couple of months. I'm hoping that it's just a stress-related flare and will pass soon.

Nancyfighting - thanks for the information about Estriol! Are you taking it at the moment? How is it going? Do you think it's helping your bladder or vaginal symptoms at all? I really hope so. Did you have a hormone test in the end? I've heard that NHS testing is woefully inadequate. My oestrogen levels always fall within the normal range, but if the Internet is to be believed then this range is far too broad. Anyway, please keep me updated on how you're doing. I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you.

Hi again, nmg85. The preparations for your wedding must be in full swing by now - how is it going? I hope you're not finding it too stressful and that the monthly instillations are helping keep the bladder in check at this important time. I must confess, I've never done much exercise. I've been doing quite a lot of walking recently and I do think the fresh air helps, but I can't really comment on the effect of going to the gym!

Thanks again for your messages and support. This thread has been a source of great comfort for me and I really appreciate everyone taking the time to chat about the woes of bladder problems.

All the best,

Rosie xxxx

nmg85 Tue 10-Mar-15 16:45:35

Hi carolineinthegarden I am okay thanks, Had my monthly dose of Parsons Cocktail instilled in my bladder today. The wedding is on the 3rd May so just under 8 weeks to go.

Has anyone else seen improvement when doing exercise? I have been getting fit and trim for the wedding and do seem to feel better. Sometimes I pretend I can run the condition off on the treadmill haha.

Hope you are all well ( well as good as you can be)

Nancyfighting Wed 04-Mar-15 22:03:37

Dear Rosie,

Sorry I didn't state clearly. Estriol (also oestriol or E3) is one of the three main estrogens produced by the human body. So it's indeed bio-identical. I had discussed with my doctor. She only prescribed me small dose of estriol cream, thus it is low risk. Moreover, in the research paper, it seems no big side effects to the patients. I don't know if it will help in my case, since I don't take the birth control pill for a very long time. However, my symptoms did come out a month later after I took the pills for my irregular menstruation. Meanwhile, I also have vaginal symptoms, which is usually treated with estrogen cream. So...I just give it a try.

But please be aware of the dark side of estrogen. It's really hard to say if estrogen is good for ic patients. Some scientists think estrogen activates the master cells in bladder and progesterone is the one to reduce it. I must say I really can't figure it out.

Right now I am thinking of having hormone test. Maybe it will help to get a best formula of hormone therapy.

carolineinthegarden Wed 04-Mar-15 13:39:13

Hi all, sorry it's been a while since I updated! I've been really busy with uni and, thankfully, my bladder has been behaving itself. I still have constant symptoms, but they've been fairly low level. I decided to give up all fruit and dairy at the end of January and this has coincided with a slight improvement in that I haven't had any major flares. I don't know if this is just a coincidence or not, but I had a small amount of goats' cheese and butter yesterday and felt pretty rubbish afterwards, so I'm going to steer clear of it for a bit longer!

bubsxo - what a wonderful idea for a tattoo. I hope that it's healed by now and that it serves as a reminder that illness can only beat us if we let it.

nmg85 - I'm so glad that you found the osteopath helpful. How are you feeling now? I hope that you continue to improve and that your wedding is amazing - when is it?

Nancyfighting - thanks so much for the information. That's so interesting, as I am certain that my initial infections were caused by low oestrogen as a result of taking the contraceptive pill. I know that many people take bio-identical oestrogen to alleviate their IC symptoms...definitely something to research further. Bit of a long shot, but I don't suppose you happen to know whether estriol is bio-identical or not?

I really hope that you are all well - or as well as you can be - and enjoying the beginning of spring. Let's hope that this marks a positive change for all of us.

Lots of love,

Rosie xxxx

Nancyfighting Tue 17-Feb-15 10:01:12

Hi everyone,
There's a research shows the results after estriol treatment. It seems to be a safe estrogen.

Find the following research paper if you are interested in.
"Effects of local estrogen therapy on recurrent urinary tract infections in young females under oral contraceptives"

nmg85 Wed 04-Feb-15 15:55:12

Hi carolineinthegarden I have now had two osteopath appointments and I have found some improvement in my overall health. I am also out of my flare and back to the bog standard annoyance level I usually have which I guess I am happy about. I don't have pain just frequency and urgency, I guess I am lucky in that sense. I am now back to planning my wedding and hoping I can stay flare free for awhile. Hope you are all well.

bubsxo Sun 01-Feb-15 17:07:15

I do agree that it is a horrible procedure just to receive a diagnosis.. However I am glad I had it done to rule out any other problems and to finally get a diagnosis! my first installation is this Friday and I am so nervous but will update you on how it went smile I'm currently suffering with tattoo pain now from one I got on Thursday. its an anchor wrapped by the infinity symbol saying "I refuse to sink" just a reminder to myself not to let this horrible thing or the other illnesses I'm dealing with get me down!

Hope this message finds you all as well as can be! xx

carolineinthegarden Thu 29-Jan-15 09:40:03

Nancyfighting - Hi! Is Estriol a bio-identical oestrogen cream? I've heard that bio-identical hormones are far better than others. I'm not sure if I've already posted this link, but there's a doctor in Bristol who deals with hormone issues and has a number of patients with IC. This is her website if you're interested: Please keep me updated on how you're doing, especially if you manage to speak to your doctor more about oestrogen - I'm sure that hormones play a part for me but, like you, I think I'm too young to be affected by menopause.

Hello, nmg85, and welcome to the thread that everyone wishes they weren't a part of. I'm so sorry that you're flaring at the moment. On the bright side, at least you know that you are capable of feeling better after the two months of improvement. It's just a case of finding the magic formula to help you get back to that state! I'm not sure what your symptoms are, but if you suffer from bladder pain it might be worth trying acupuncture as an emergency measure to reduce your pain. How did your appointment with the osteopath go? I am currently seeing an osteopath but feel that he is better at treating my overall health rather than my bladder problems. Sending you big hugs and really hoping that you feel better soon.

bubsxo - I hope you found the rest of the thread useful! It's nice to think that, although I can't do a lot with my life at the moment, I might be able to help people by sharing what little knowledge I've gained over the past 15 months. I'm so glad that your cystoscopy was a positive experience for you. You deserve a medal for conquering your fear! IMHO it's a bit barbaric that we still have to be subjected to the cystoscopy in order to get a diagnosis... Most of the time, cystoscopies just seem to show bladder inflammation - well, duh! Have you had your first instillation yet? How did it go? I really hope that the instillations give you some relief; I heard that they have a really high success rate. Keep us updated on how you're getting on!

Lots of love to all. I've just started my final term at university (scary!) so might not be around to update as frequently as usual, but I will definitely be checking in and reading any comments. Rosie xxxx

bubsxo Mon 26-Jan-15 03:48:10

Hi all,

I've read some of the posts on here but as it's quite late and I'm tired I skipped through quite a lot. But I'm definitely going to re read it all tomorrow and look into suggestions, books, and diets that you've all posted smile

I've just been diagnosed with IC last week after suffering with urine frequency for the past two years or so. It is terrible and definitely makes you very depressed. I felt embarrassed and it affected my social life, my relationship, and my work life.

I'm going to keep it short for now and wont to into details about my history or symptoms but I just wanted to say those who are worried about cystoscopies please have a think about having this procedure. I had one just before Christmas and spent the weeks leading up to it terrified by Google answers, and crying. I thought about cancelling but my mum whose seen me suffer bless her refused to let me. With my anxiety and panic attacks worsened by the thought of it i tried to leave the hospital several times before.. I'm so glad I didnt! The doctors before kept giving me antibiotics for years and years as I'd suffer a lot with cystitis pain and I was sent for the same scan of my bladder over and over. It got so bad that I couldn't hold the 2 pints of water that they required me to drink before hand and I was a nervous crying wreck.

I'd never been put to sleep before so was incredibly worried about that and luckily my auntie who works in theatre was able to hold my hand as I was put to sleep, but all was fine. I did suffer from really bad pain after my cystoscopy and the need to go even more was increased, they did give me an antibiotic when I was under but I think that because they stretched my bladder during the procedure it was very inflamed and I required further antibiotics.

It was painful for a few days to "pee" and I thought it had made things worse, but it definitely helped as it settled down to normal (well what I considered normal - definitely not normal for most people!) and I was given the diagnosis of IC. It also ruled out any other serious problems that they couldn't of found without looking at my bladder.

I'm due to have bladder instillations once a week starting from next week for a month, and then monthly for 9 months. I'm terrified as Google has brought up horror stories (i need to stop doing that!) but I'm going to discuss this with my GP on Tuesday.

I'm so glad I went ahead with a cystoscopy and would advise it to people for sure. I finally feel like I'm being taken seriously now, as many doctors would just give me antibiotics based on my symptoms (i now know i never actually had an infection all those times!) or not take me seriously. Although I'm scared of what the future will hold with IC as I know there is no known cure I would of still been given multiple antibiotics and depressed that I had no diagnosis.

Looking forward to reading through the thread properly tomorrow and hopefully finding successful ways to manage this horrible thing and I hope all those suffering have some relief, for today at least smile xxx

nmg85 Fri 23-Jan-15 11:06:38

Hi all,

I am 29 years old and have suffered with IC since April 2012. To say that it has affected my life is a understatement I don't have the life I want but I try desperately to have a life. I have tried most tests inc US, urodynamics and 2 cystoscopies. So far I have tried 10 drugs and 2 types of instillations. I am currently in a ' severe flare' despite having 2 ok months of manageable symptoms. I have no idea why this has occurred and would just like it to go as quickly as it arrived as the confidence I have gained over past few months is quickly disappearing. I have tried alternative therapies and I have a an appointment with a osteopath next week. If anyone would like to chat about treatments or just talk to someone who might understand please feel free to message me

Nancyfighting Fri 23-Jan-15 08:52:53

Dear Rosie,

Yes, the Urosan works like Elmiron which needs to be taken for few months to show its effect.
My GYN also told me my vagina area is red and it could cause the urethra and bladder problem .She prescribed me the estriol cream which is usually for menopause women. However I am only 26.....I would like to discuss more with the doctor.....Although estriol is a much safer estrogen. and some Ic patients did become better after using estrogen.

I will keep updating my condition here, wish can do some help for anyone who suffer from this complicated problem.

All the best!

carolineinthegarden Thu 22-Jan-15 09:04:31

Hi again, everyone.

Nancyfighting - I am really glad that the cystoscopy gave you some definitive answers and that the dilation has increased your bladder capacity. That is certainly good news. I really hope that the Urosan helps you - does it take a few months to take effect, in the same way that Elmiron does? Let us know how you're getting on - I'd be really interested in the Urosan as my urologist told me it's difficult to get hold of Elmiron in the UK.

Bolshybookworm - I love your username. I'm so, so glad that you've managed to get your symptoms under control. It's great to hear of another 'success story' on long term antibiotics, as this is the next treatment I intend to try. Do you think your problems were caused by an underlying infection? Thanks for your good advice re: alternative practitioners. I always check the qualifications of anyone I consult (alternative or conventional) and would only ever pursue a treatment if I understood and believed in the science behind it. Anyway, thank you again for your kind words; your story is inspiring and reassuring. I hope that one day I can be pain free and have a family, too.

Elibean - I'm glad you're not experiencing bad side effects from Amitriptyline. The improved sleep sounds blissful; I can't remember the last time I felt rested! I hope that things continue to improve for you.

Chrissy42 - I am so pleased that things are improving. Long may it continue. Keep us updated on your test results and how you're feeling. I'm always here if you need a chat.

Another huge thank you to everyone who's posted on this thread - you've all been insightful, sensitive, thoughtful and reassuring and I appreciate it so, so much.

Sending all my very best wishes,

Rosie (Caroline's suffering daughter) xxxx

Chrissy42 Fri 16-Jan-15 23:00:30

Thank you so much for your lovely message. Things are improving slowly. I am sticking rigidly to the diet. Off the sleeping tablets. Off the amitriptyline as it did nothing. Take a diazepam at night occasionally. Antidepressant kicked in and feel more positive. Waiting for results from food intolerance testing. Onwards and upwards hopefully. Hugs to all fellow sufferers. Xx

Elibean Tue 13-Jan-15 12:15:23

Hi Caroline! No, it hasn't affected urine output in any way. But I had a scan to check retention, and as long as I wait long enough, shift position etc I'm alright on that not sure if it would otherwise.

My only side effects seem to be vastly improved sleep, and a bit of sleepiness in the mornings - small price to pay!

Wishing you all the best of health for 2015 xx

Bolshybookworm Tue 13-Jan-15 11:33:34

Hi ladies,
Haven't read the full thread, but just wanted to share my success story. I started getting cystitis like symptoms in my mid-twenties (I think possibly triggered by a real UTI after sex). No bladder pain but bouts of acute pain and urgency (the pain was urethral, IFSWIM). In between the bouts, I had constant burning vulval pain, it was agony. I repeatedly went to the GUM clinic but never tested positive for bacteria, STIs etc. once tested positive for thrush (after stupidly self treating with hand cream- was desperate at that point). No one was willing to refer me either, I felt stuck and very depressed. Was able to see a urogynae friend of the family who put me on long term antibiotics (cipro and metronidazole to start with (think the hand cream gave me a skin infection) then cefalexin) and steroids for the skin. I also stopped wearing trousers (sob) and tights (now I cut a hole in the crotch!), stopped drinking anything other than water and if I drank alcohol, accompanied it with massive amounts of water to dilute it. I also went on the low oxalate diet for a while as high oxalate foods made the pain worse. Stopped the pill (hormones definitely have an influence on my pain levels). And of course, when I did manage Dtd, went for a wee and washed afterwards. I also tried to stretch out times between going for a wee, partly because it hurt so much!

It took a long time (was on ABs for several years), but I am now pain free. Still have to be careful and avoid trousers, cycling etc, but it's a small price to pay.

You all have my profound sympathies. I know I lost crap friends because they couldn't understand (and I was too embarrassed to explain) why I could no longer go out all the time and was suddenly so miserable. The pain can be so all consuming. At least it sorts the wheat from the chaff, partner wise. My problems started a couple of months after I met my boyfriend. We are now happily married with 2 small children smile. I hope you all find the treatments (and doctors!) that work for you.

As others have said, be wary of alternative practitioners- most aren't medically trained. Once you have your diagnosis, use them to support and supplement your treatment, rather than replace it.

Nancyfighting Tue 13-Jan-15 10:26:33

The cystoscopy result shows typical Ic data. Fortunately my Ic symptom doesn't become worse after the examination. My volume of bladder becomes bigger to 400ml after the bladder dilation. Although sometimes I still pee not much. And now I can stop guessing what is wrong with me.
I am now taking Urosan which is basically the same as Elmiron. I don't know if it will work or not. But I realized that we can't keep being controlled by IC. I always feel better when I forget or ignore the symptoms. That's Ture!!!
Girls plz have faith in yourselves! We must believe things will become better.

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