Name changed as feel a bit uncomfortable about this - sorry if it's a bit long
DP and I have 4mo DC. DP feeling unwell for some time now (on and off for maybe 2 years?) and says it's asthma as he had it as a child (phlemmy (sp?) cough, limited energy and so on). Been back and forth to docs and just prescribed inhalers and steroids. Meanwhile, I have a gut feeling that it's something more serious.
At Xmas he was so bad I forced him to go to a walk-in centre and the GP there said he had a chest infection and gave him antibiotics. Some improvement, but then things gradually got worse again.
Fast forward to this month, DP now losing weight, coughing more than ever and now coughing up bits of blood (he's been a bit coy about this as realises he can no longer put symptoms down to stress of new baby)
He has finally had an xray and today has been told there is evidence of infection and TB mentioned as a possible cause. Tomorrow he is doing a sputum test, blood tests next week, and then a referral to a chest specialist or similar in the next few weeks.
All very worrying (although trying not to jump ahead of myself here as we don't have a diagnosis yet). However, in about 4 weeks' time we are supposed to be flying abroad (other side of the world) to accompany DP to a conference and making a bit of a holiday of it. It's a bit short notice as had to wait for DP to get approval to go, and supposed to be booking it this week.
I have told DP he is sufficiently seriously ill that we should be considering cancelling this trip. Also, if he does turn out to have TB, then surely having a communicable disease makes it a no-go anyway? Problem is, I have no idea what the timescales for diagnosis are and he may not find out til very close to departure date.
I have been so worried for so long about this - it was clear to me that something was v wrong. However, DP (although v intelligent) is the master of self-diagnosis but to be fair to him, I don't think he's been taken that seriously by the medical profession up until now!
Sorry for long post - can anyone reassure me that it would be daft to contemplate doing this trip now? DP devastated as was v important to him that we did this trip as a family. And does anyone know if TB diagnosis is quick? Thank you.
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Please help - DP ill, TB mentioned and supposed to be travelling soon!
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StuffedOctopus · 04/06/2013 13:25
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