dh has been ill since about January. he is self employed in a physical job and hasn't been working much so money is becoming a huge issue (no sick pay and business bills to pay).
He's been back and forward to the GP about 6 times. He's been in an ambulance once with his symptoms and in A+E twice and seen by the acute admissions consultant. Had 3 sets of bloods taken and nothing found. Been in to do an assessment of his heart (on a treadmill) and everything was ok.
Every time he goes back to the GP, its the same, he's told he's "likely to have/had a virus and his body is run down fighting it" and that's it. Been told to take a good multivitamin to help.
He's got another appointment on Thursday. Any advice on how to get something actually done?
Some of his symptoms (doctor has been told all this) are:
- Extreme fatigue
- Numbness in both arms and legs (not all the time)
- Shaking in arms and legs (seems to get this even more when he skips/is late for a meal, was getting it every day or two at one point, but now he is making an effort to eat regularly it happens less often). Sometimes it was very bad and he also gets a tightness in his chest (the worst time this happened was when NHS direct called the ambulance)
- Pins and needles/tingling in both arms and legs
- Dizzyness/feeling as if he's going to pass out
- Pain when hands in cold water (does this as part of his job)
- Lack of strength in hands (can press down hard on things which makes working impossible)
- Hyper sensitive to sound (cant listen to TV, cant cope with ds(9) being noisy, sometimes cant even cope with normal conversations)
- Buzzing noise in ears/head
- Headaches
- Sensitive to light
- Problems sleeping
Most nights and during the day when ds and I get home from work/school he now goes to the spare room just to lie down and get away from the noise or because he feels dizzy or his legs and arms are feeling numb/tingling again.
What can we do to make the GP actually do something (been to 3 GP's in our practice).
It has been going on so long now dh is so anxious there is something seriously wrong, and can be irritable (or maybe that's another symptom). ds(9) is being strange around him and is really missing his dad that would play and wrestle and take him to footie.
We are in Scotland if that makes any difference.
If you got to the end, thanks for reading.