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GP appointment on Monday - how to fit things in?

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DorisShutt · 18/04/2013 11:53

I have an appointment on Monday and I'd like to go in and just yell "fix me!" and have her wave a wand. Sadly I suspect this won't work, so how am I best to tell her everything?

In order of things bugging me I have:

  • ongoing low iron levels

The cause is under investigation, but not being treated and in the interim I think it's causing:
- dizziness and woozy head (feeling dizzy and disconnected)
- scaly skin that even moisturiser for exceptional dry skin isn't touching
- outbreaks of spots that (once the whitehead "pops") take a few weeks to heal.

I also have a sore breast (have had a full investigation with mammogram, ultrasound and needle biopsy and there is nothing sinister) with an itchy nipple so I suspect I may have a mild infection and an itchy freckle on my arm - this may just be related to the dry and scaly skin but equally, it might be more serious.

I'm not really coping with the pile-up of issues and am totally paranoid about the dizziness as this was the first symptom my mum had when she developed the cancer that killed her; and given the sore breast (even though I've had the all clear) it's niggling away at my brain at 2am.

I know the appointment is 10 min and there is no way I can get through everything.

Would I be laughed at if I printed her up a summary (crap handwriting!) and said, "this is what I have, I know you don't have time to deal with it all but can you have a look, rank them and discuss what you can?" then I can make a subsequent appointment if it's required?
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bizzey · 18/04/2013 12:05

That sounds like a fab idea !!He/she will read it quicker than you explaining ..and if like me feeling stupid with so many problems!

He/she will be able to assess what to do first/start with...and get you back on the road again to feeling better!

Copy your thread ???

Good luck Flowers

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DorisShutt · 18/04/2013 12:12

Yes, I may well do that (with proper bullet points and formatting naturally!) but it's good to know that it isn't a totally daft idea.

I tend to get quite flustered at the GP and babble on about insignificant things rather than the stuff that is really worrying me - like the 2am worrying about dizziness and it possibly being a serious symptom like it was for my mum. Sad I think if I chat about the "minor" stuff then we don't get to the worrying stuff and I can try to ignore it and then it will just go away - even though it is worrying me.

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bizzey · 18/04/2013 12:47

Doris...The 2am worrying about dizziness might not be "insignificant"to a doctor...It is giving them the whole picture of you and how you are feeling ..and can therefore treat YOU as a whole person rather than 1 sympton....when everything might be connected .

BTW I am in no way medically trained but do take my dad to lots of appointments and have found sometimes a thing I have said in passing is what our GP wants to disscuss more !!


Write everything down ..and let them deceide what is insignificant Smile...and fight if you don't agree!

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grimbletart · 18/04/2013 13:26

Yes Doris: deffo write a list. The doctor can scan it in a couple of minutes - far quicker than you can tell her and that will leave you free and give you more time to voice your concerns/amplify the points. Good luck.

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DorisShutt · 18/04/2013 16:02

Right, a list it is then. Glad it's not as daft an idea as I thought it might be!

Now... which font should I use?! Wink

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bizzey · 18/04/2013 17:00

Think about it at 2am in the morning ...it will take your mind off the dizziness Grin

Hope it all goes well.

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