Ds's dad and I have been apart for 2 1/2 years now, but we've still kept a good friendship, in fact i'd say he's my best friend. Everyone always comments on how well we've done managing to stay friends and I'm really close with his whole family, they're like my 2nd family.
He started feeling rubbish last friday, and then came out in a rash which was diagnosed at Scarlet Fever. It got worse and worse, and was then diagnosed as measles. He was kept at home as they said he was the worst he could be, and that he'd start getting better. On friday evening he started having difficulty breathing, and was blue lighted to A & E. He was diagnosed that night with pneumonia in both lungs, and was having to use an oxygen mask all the time to breathe. I think he was in real danger that night, but he then started to get better.
Over night tho he's been admitted to Intensive Care. His temp is sky high and his breathing and heart rate are really high. They don't know yet if it's viral or bacterial pneumonia.
Fuck. I'm terrified. I'm trying to keep calm and normal for DS (3). We live on our own, but last night we stayed at my mum's as i just couldn't face pacing around my house all evening on my own. We took DS out for the day yesterday to do lots of fun things, and are going to do the same today. He is picking up on it tho, and i told him that Daddy is poorly in hospital as i didn't want him hearing it from anyone else. ExP's grandma has recently died, so I think DS is thinking that Daddy might also go up into the stars, as his Great Grandma was poorly for a long time before she died.
I just want to wake up and have this all been a really bad nightmare.
Sorry for the long ramble, it's good to get it all out as i'm trying to so hard to be normal for DS. Fuck
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CalmingLava · 14/04/2013 08:35
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