Advanced search

Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you have any medical concerns we suggest you consult your GP.

My cousin's in resus :-(

(72 Posts)
Coffee1Sugar Tue 09-Apr-13 10:00:16

She's 30. She had a diseased kidney removed at birth and a kidney transplant of the remaining one at 8yo. She's now in resus fighting for her life with hyperkalaemia. This is the local A&E without a specific renal unit so the docs are liaising with her consultant's team at a London hospital by phone and Skype - she is too ill to be transferred. Does anyone have any experience of this? My auntie and mum are with you, she has no partner or kids, I've got a toddler at home so can't go. Keeping all phones free for news but worried sick.

D0GWithAYoni Fri 12-Apr-13 08:36:26

Oh coffee I've only just seen this. So sorry to hear it my thoughts are with you and your family.

xigris Fri 12-Apr-13 08:33:29

So sorry coffee sad

Portofino Fri 12-Apr-13 08:29:31

So sorry to hear about your cousin. Thinking of you and the rest of the family xxx

BasicallySFB Fri 12-Apr-13 08:13:07

I'm so so sorry for your sudden loss. No words but take best care of you, and thoughts with your family thanks

HollyGoHeavily Fri 12-Apr-13 08:07:54

I'm so very sorry for your loss coffee x

digerd Fri 12-Apr-13 08:00:22

It is so tragic. Her kidney tranplant she had at 8 years-old, did give her 22 years of life that she wouldn't have had without it. Try to concentrate on the joy you both had together during her too short life.

It is the worst thing we experience in our lives to lose a loved one.

Poppetspinkpants Thu 11-Apr-13 20:52:18

So sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you tonight.

foofooyeah Thu 11-Apr-13 19:24:59

oh I am so sorry. So young. It must be devastating for you all.

picnicbasketcase Thu 11-Apr-13 16:50:37

I'm so sorry for your loss. Peace, strength and best wishes to you and your family.

ovenchips Thu 11-Apr-13 16:49:33

I am so sorry to hear about your lovely cousin, Coffee. What a shock and what a loss.

Sending you strength.

drummerswife Thu 11-Apr-13 16:49:31

thinking of you and your family
treasure the happy memories you have of her they can never be taken away x

Coffee1Sugar Thu 11-Apr-13 16:44:45

Thank you for all your lovely words. So nice to know that there are people out there who care who don't even know me! I've spent the day at my aunts house, took round a cottage pie and a lasagne for the freezer and my mum has done some cleaning for her. Just in shock almost denial to be honest. My oh has taken today off to be with dd so I can collect my thoughts and spend time with the family.

trickycat Thu 11-Apr-13 12:20:22

So sorry she lost her fight. Thinking of you and all your family.

magso Thu 11-Apr-13 12:06:40

So sorry Coffee.

QueenOfCats Thu 11-Apr-13 10:40:39

I too was hoping that there would be a positive update sad

I'm so sorry for your loss x

HairyPotter Thu 11-Apr-13 10:36:35

I am so very sorry. sad

ParsingFancy Thu 11-Apr-13 10:34:47

Oh Coffee. I'm so very sorry.

Madsometimes Thu 11-Apr-13 09:36:40

I'm very sorry. She was far too young.

Ginformation Thu 11-Apr-13 09:34:28

So sorry to hear the news, massive unMNy hugs for you. X

XBenedict Thu 11-Apr-13 09:32:08

I'm very sorry to hear this Coffee, very sorry sad

cogitosum Thu 11-Apr-13 09:31:18

really sorry sad thinking of you and your family

Coconutty Thu 11-Apr-13 09:25:53

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

Imnotaslimjim Thu 11-Apr-13 09:23:46

So sorry to hear this, you must be devastated. Take one day at a time, cry all you need to flowers

Bakingnovice Thu 11-Apr-13 09:23:42

Oh darling, so sorry for your loss. I was rooting hard for you all and was hoping the update today would bring good news. Please use the support here. It's amazing. Thinking of you and your cousin/sister.

hellhasnofurylikeahungrywoman Thu 11-Apr-13 09:23:39

My condolences to you and your family.

Join the discussion

Join the discussion

Registering is free, easy, and means you can join in the discussion, get discounts, win prizes and lots more.

Register now