My brother was suddenly killed just over a year ago and now my mum has been diagnosed with breast cancer.
It's not the more common hormonal type but a type that can be brought on by severe trauma, grief in this instance.
She's having a mastectomy next week then chemo. We have to wait to see what they find after surgery and hope it hasn't spread.
I'm obviously petrified and don't know what to do. I cannot cope with losing her, especially not after we have lost my brother.
Is anybody aware of the non hormonal type of cancer or have any advice or words of wisdom please? I know nobody can know the outcome but I'm in pieces and could really do with some help.
I cannot bear to think of life without her and to think of my ds and ds (due in 6 wks) missing out on knowing her.
She is being amazingly strong and positive although I don't know how much is an act. I know she needs us to be positive for her as this can help. It's just so hard.
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My mum has cancer brought on by complicated grief (lost son), advice please?
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sunnysunnyshine · 20/02/2013 16:28
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