DP is ill, so often, these days. Nothing major, but every time there's a cold or anything going round he gets it really badly. He has developed sinus problems in the last few of years, and a cold can end up giving him terrible headaches. It's not just his sinuses though. He's in generally bad health I think, he pulls muscles easily and gets lots of colds.
It seems to me that his immune system is really struggling.
There's hardly a week goes by when he's not taking a morning (till 12) or a whole day in bed. It's making him miserable and makes things difficult for me.
This is not normal for a 37 year old!
I am starting to get a bit annoyed actually - this has been going on two years and he hasn't been to the doctor about it once (he's not even registered at a doctor in the town we live in). He also hasn't tried the obvious - giving up cigarettes - or cutting down on his drinking.
He has wine with dinner many nights, or a couple of beers. He might have enough to be drunk every two or three weeks. I've got no problem with the drinking from a social point of view - he's a really funny drunk. He's an interesting, fun person and I love his company, sober or drunk. But from a health point of view I'm basically starting to think he's poisoning himself. I think he's in denial that alcohol has anything to do with his ill health. He partied a lot when he was younger and sees his relatively modest alcohol intake these days as nothing to worry about in comparison. Which of course makes no sense as he's not in a young body any more!
The smoking can only be damaging. I can't make him give up of course! But I don't think the penny's dropped about how much it's damaging him, or that he's ill all the time, possibly because of it. I got him that Alan Carr book but he found it overly American and it put him off.
If anyone has any advice - maybe on why he might be ill all the time, or how to support someone giving up smoking, or how to show him how damaging booze and fags are to your immune system, or anything else helpful, I'd be very grateful :)
I'm worried about him, and wish he'd do something about it!
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Why is DP ill all the time?
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threeleftfeet · 31/07/2012 09:46
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