Hello.
Going to the gynecologist on Tuesday for pelvic and vagina complaints. How do I word my difficulty to have sex doggy style after childbirth. Sorry can't put it any other way. I feel apprehensive about the appointment but needs to be done. Sex like that is a big no no. Sex in the missionary position is not a walk in the park either but after initial penetration (with a lot of lubricant) is a bit more tolerable but still needs to be quick as can't keep legs apart for long without hurting. There is a spot inside my vagina which is still very sore.
I have a 6 month old baby. The delivery was done by forceps. I also had an epidural which I read may have worsened the symptoms. I still can't walk properly or part legs without aching, have to keep stride short, struggle with stairs and back aches after even 10 minutes walk on the flat, hips hurt, too. Sex is difficult to get on with (through no lack of want) I couldn't walk properly since I was pregnant. At the time midwife took no notice. Anyway, since 2 -3 months after delivery I've been complaining to GP to no avail. Pushed for gynecologist appointment as I was not aware that what I have in pelvis could be girdle pain as I would have pushed for a physio as well. I may have that but also cannot have sex in the doggy style (which could be an alternative position to the missionary position).
It brings me down. I used to walk up hills and cycle before pregnancy. Was not slim but certainly not unfit. Now I can't even push baby's pushchair properly. Missing out on buggy fit and getting fit again.
Please also give me your account on physio results for girdle pain. What should I expect. I was advised to seek a special women's one as sometimes mainstream physios don't address the issue properly.
Thanks for listening.
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Have you had pain in sex after delivery or girdle pain? Have you found help easily? Visiting gyneocologist. PLEASE help with wording.
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slowcooker · 11/09/2011 14:04
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