So I am 25, my sister is almost 29 - I have an almost 1 year old and my sister has no children
My sister however is 29, lives at home with our parents has had 8 jobs in 6 months and just treats my parents so bad but they are SO nice to her and no matter what, if she disappears for a week on a bender and loses her job, comes home, they'll still support her and help her but she actually has the worst attitude and acts like a 15 year old girl and it starting to really grind on me. Recently , she's been hanging around with a bad bunch and she is so vulgar to be around, she will impulsively say things infront of my family or swear and just be so impulsive constantly like she's so unpredictable with her actions and what she says, like my son was sat in his high chair at my mums and she just starts putting her middle finger up at him and like yeah fuck you, and also been out for a week god knows if she showered and just walked in like she's not slept and goes to put her fingers in my sons mouth to feels for teeth and it's dirty, and she's just acting so erratic like bursting out in song in the middle of a dinner or she just really rude and outspoken and not taking care of her self and she is so snappy my parents don't say anything or confront her because she goes 1-100 and I say they are enabling her to continue acting like this brat because there not saying anything back to her but they won't listen , they just are full of love constantly but my sister is discusting and I'm sick of my family putting up with her behaviour for a 29 year old , it saddens me that she is 29 acting around with 21 year olds that don't work or do bad things, she's never been like this until the last year and a half since she started hanging around with people younger than her and she's literally became this weird, over baring person and I can't deal with it anymore !!!
So i have said to my parents, that until something changes in her behaviour I won't be bringing my little boy around theres anymore, because I don't like the way she is with my son, I don't like how she speaks to us and I don't like how they get her what she wants with how she treats them it's not normal at all and it's letting her mind think she's still this 15 year old girl, im not doing this to punish my mum or dad, I'm doing this because I'm hoping that something will change if she realises she's missing out on being around me or her nephew, my mum and dad will still come to ours, and also I can't bare it to see her keep acting this erratic around my son , just wondering what anyone's opinions are or any suggestions?
No bad comments towards my parents, I think because of her age they feel like they can't say too much to her and they hate it when she goes for a week and can't get a hold of her and she tends to storm out and go missing for a week after they try speak to her, it's so hard but something needs to be done now because I can't take seeing her treat my parents like this much longer
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sallysue12 · 17/03/2021 22:42
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