Hi all - this may sound ridiculous but my DS aged 19 has announced he wants to go to Uni. He is currently doing a decent apprenticeship and earning a decent wage but wants to drop this for a business degree. He says he feels too young to be doing 9 to 5 every day with a bunch of older, unambitious people that he's not learning from. He also feels isolated from people - he has just one friend at the mo. He never wanted to go to Uni whilst at 6th form - but has been saying he wants to go/no he doesn't since May this year. He has gone through clearing and has been offered a place - just waiting for accommodation now. If he goes, this would mean moving out this weekend. I cant help feeling it's so rushed, but would I be a bad mum if I didn't support him with this? My gut feeling is to stick at the apprenticeship - I always said it's a means to an end and once he gets the qualification from it he can spread his wings then. Obs there's more detail behind this, but for now this is basically what I am worrying myself sick with. His dad is not the best communicator on this topic - thinks son should join a local football team to make friends. Any thoughts would be greatly appreciated - thank you.
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