Hello -
My son is 19, and has not had the easiest of childhoods because I separated from his mom about 8 years ago and he didn't take it well. His mom now has a new partner, with a child, so that's made him feel more estranged from her and her new life. His sister lives with his mom miles away in Dorking, while I live with him. However I work all day.
He's not very academic but is a very quiet and good boy, but he doesn't want to leave the house, and he doesn't seem to have any motivation to go out and study. All he wants to do is play computer games all day. He's withdrawn into himself and seems quite unwilling to socialize. He's a good looking boy but has always been a bit shy.
I'd like to know if anybody has experience with career counselling or psychological counselling which can help him get out of this rut and help him find more enthusiasm for his future. Are there good counselling services or clinics? I don't want him to feel like he is abnormal or anything but I do think he needs help, and also I need to have a concrete assessment of what he might be good at so that he can take that forward and make decisions about his future.
Concerned single father.
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vegabook · 08/08/2017 15:21
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