Wondered if anyone had any experience of a SGO in a case like ours?
Adopted dd, 17, is pregnant, due in April. Her behaviour has been pretty awful in the past, with running off, stealing, assaulting me and other people, getting drunk etc.
She's been much better since she's become pregnant, has returned home to live, and we're getting on much better, although she still has a nasty temper.
Both she and her unborn baby are on child protection plans. The father isn't on the scene.
I think she could be a good parent and I hope the baby could be the making of her. But I wouldn't like to guarantee she won't ever get bored of the baby, resent it for curtailing her freedom, lose her temper with it, or one day run off with another lad.
The baby's social worker has asked me to consider a SGO to enable me to share parental responsibility with dd, and to have the power to stop her taking the baby with her if she decides to start dragging it around her lowlife mates at night, or wants to move out of the area with it.
We are desperate to avoid the baby being take into care so we'd certainly consider it. But after doing some research, it seems SGOs are primarily for children who can't live with their birth parents, and in our case, dd would be living here too, at least for the foreseeable future.
Would a SGO be appropriate or is there something else we should be considering?
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Papergirl1968 · 21/01/2019 19:43
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