So I appreciate that this is perhaps controversial, but I am feeling genuinely disillusioned and depressed thinking about the fostering system in my area at the moment (Scotland).
I was a long term foster carer to a young man, and I am also very senior within a youth social care role- I see young people who have been through the care system pretty much every day. Following a particularly upsetting episode yesterday with foster carers who are basically crap, and yet another failing placement, I just honestly do not understand why fostering is still the preferred option for many children. I am too young to remember the old style children’s homes with lots of children but lots of trained staff, but I can’t help but wonder if we are missing a trick and a return to this model (which doesn’t pretend to be a ‘replacement family), with properly qualified staff who are in it for the right reason, would be better, and we wouldn’t have kids coming through who have had multiple failed fostering homes, and come out pretty much broken??
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flossietoot · 25/07/2018 00:28
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