I have a friend who had her niece and nephew placed on an sgo a year ago. There were no other suitable family members so i think she felt obliged to.
Since then the placement has broken down and she cant cope with their needs. Shes contacted ss for support whose idea of support is to place them in full time nursery. This isnt working and my friend has said she cant and doesnt want to do it any more.
Ss have now contacted me to ask if Im willing to be assessed to take the children on, on a private fostering arrangement.
This concerns me for a number of reasons. At ages 2 and 3, surely the children need stability? As far as I know, fostering doesnt offer this. Also - who retains parental responsibility - my friend under the sgo or their biological parents?
I have also been advised that I will receive no financial assistance under this order and the financial assistance they receive now under the sgo would be squashed. If my friend retains PR under an SGO, how can it be squashed?
There are so many unanswered questions and SS arent very forthcoming with replies.
Given I am not a family member, I assume I cannot apply for a more permanent order to secure their long term future? Would I be able to if SS took the case back to court and had the SGO squashed, got a care order for them (along with PR) and placed with me then?
I feel I would like to take these children. Ive been through the process before and have good knowledge of their needs and the hard work to come! However, I do believe all children have a right to security and stability and I am worried that they would be placed with me now and then possibly moved again in the future which, given they have attachment issues already, is no good for either of them.
I am hoping someone will give me some ideas on how to proceed in dealing with ss. Anything I should request (push for!) or ask about.
Thank you in advance.
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kkk778509 · 07/06/2018 19:25
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