Hi all, just after a bit of help really, im currently in the process of sgo or fostering for my great nephew, him and his mum lived with me from birth, as he was on a protection plan, however at 5 weeks old an incident occurred and following that, he was placed in foster care..
almost 6 months later, ive had a negative assessment, which was unfairly done and the social worker was challenged, therefore judge granted an independent social worker to assess and extended the next court date
however, when the question of contact comes up, its like everything i say is the wrong thing. The dad is violent, has been in prison, and does know where i live. However didnt come near the property when his ex and their baby was living with me.
he does currently have contact with his son, as does the babies mum, whist the court proceedings are still taking place,
the independent assessor is going to ask me what wiuld i do if dad turns up out of arranged contact etc
now in the past i said, i wouldnt answer and would call the police, due to his violent history... but it seemed this was the wrong thing to say. i just dont want to get another negative on a hypothetical situation cause to be perfectly honest, his dad barely goes to contact and wouldnt bother coming to my house anyway
but if i fail then this baby is going to get adopted, so theres a lot of pressure for me to say the rigth things
so if anyone has any advice that would be great,
thank you
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Nugget2016 · 12/02/2017 20:52
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