We are in an ideal position to foster. DC are right age to understand, financially secure, and pretty much raring and ready to go.
My biggest worry/concern and the one thing that keeps stopping me from making that first move is my family background.
I have limited contact with my mother due to her unpredictable behaviour, our children at the request of my husband and them themselves have no contact with her. My sister & brother have been no contact for 15 yrs as has my mother and brother, its actually 20 for them. I have absolutely no idea where my Father is and my brother has a big drink problem and has endless run in's with the police due to this and no steady employment as lurches from one job to another. He has children but all living apart from him.
This sounds so bad just reading it back never mind having to explain it to someone i want to convince i can be a great foster mum.
My husband and i have a steady marriage, we have two children who are doing brilliantly at school and the oldest is in full time employment. I have absolutely no worries about my little family but my extended family is shattered.
I don't suppose every foster family is perfect but will my family background go against us?
Husbands family are modern day Waltons.
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2468A · 18/06/2015 12:16
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