We have waited a year for a teenager in placement with us to be moved. This child has been unable to settle in foster care with us (although the sibling is very happy and settled). We have constantly been told that there were no single places among the LA carers (we were told that this child needed to be placed as an only child in any home she moves to) and we would just have to be patient until an LA fostering family stepped forwards.
We were told yesterday that this teen is to be moved on Christmas Eve!
Her sibling is confused now that things are sinking in as they have never been apart at Christmas.
I cannot believe that our LA would do the two things they said they would not do: 1. move this child over Christmas and 2. move her where she will not be an only child (this family have another younger child in placement).
Still reeling from the shock but keeping my "happy face" on so the child does not pick up on my upset.
I never thought fostering would be so painful.
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Would any SW move a child on Christmas Eve?
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Fosterangel · 19/12/2012 17:07
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