I am feeling a bit sad and need someone to tell me off for wallowing in self-pity!! Any volunteers.
We have encouraged (nagged!) our foster teens to save pocket money each week and we said we would match what they saved so they had some cash to buy Christmas gifts. Today was reckoning day and each had saved £10. We matched this and off they went today to buy their Christmas gifts with £40 between them. They came back with some lovely gifts all for their various friends and birth family members which we will now post to their birth relatives around the country.
This will be their 3rd Christmas with us (and 5th Christmas in care). It is the same this year as in previous years - no card and no present (not even a home made card or present) for us or our own family. All of our friends and family give cards and gifts to our f/teens and are happy to do this without us prompting. It is not like I don't drop hints about them giving our family or us a Christmas card from the box we buy them each year to give to their friends.
I don't want praise or gratitude (that would be creepy as these f/teens did not ask to be in care) but AIBU to expect a card at least?
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Fosterangel · 02/12/2012 18:52
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