Hi everyone.
Just wanting some insight into why SS may be reluctant to go for a court order..
Been fostering 6 months and have 2 siblings placed with us for 6 mths so far but voluntarily. Had been left inappropriately with an aunt, SS had been working with mum, and 'heresay' of neglect.
Mum refused to see kids for first 5 weeks and despite SW saying on the day she brought the kids to us that she was going for a Court Order, hasn't.
Contact been very hit and miss. Verbally agressive to professionals infront of the kids and some basic needs not being addressed in the 2hr supervised contact.
Then a month ago, a PLO meeting was held as she was threatening to take the kids away. Given 6 weeks to get her act together and not miss one contact session, else they'd go for the order 'immediately'. Well, she missed 2 and no order was made. A review after the 6 weeks was that we'll see how the next 4 weeks ago and then review it all again.
Contact is going well. Its more the 'behind the scenes' work that isn't going well at all. Yesterday and today, apparently all hell has let loose and when turning up for contact been very aggressive and swearing, throwing things across the room. SW told us they'd see how things went...
She was in ill for 7/10 days back in Nov last year, and when I ask the SW they say if they went for a court order they say she'll throw the 'i've been ill' card..
Have any of you experience of situations like this, and if you're out there NanaNina - be really glad of your view...
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Why a reluctance to go for a Court Order
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p99gmb · 23/03/2011 19:38
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