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Boyfriend getting new roomate on tour. question

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Babyboy15 Tue 24-Jan-17 19:24:07


I've just got a question for the ladies who have a man in the forces or if you may know the answer.

My boyfriends on a tour with the RAF in Dubai and he's just told me he's getting a new roomate tomorrow.

I just want to know if it could be a female, and would the RAF allow a woman and a man to share the same room?

Please let me know.


exLtEveDallas Tue 24-Jan-17 19:26:36

He's with the RAF - he's prob in a smart hotel wink

No, not if it's an actual room. If it's a sleeping bag under a basha, then possibly.

BiBi8 Tue 24-Jan-17 19:28:34

DP says no, it wouldn't be a woman.

Babyboy15 Tue 24-Jan-17 19:32:29

Thank you BiBi8. I hope to God not. I won't be happy with that.

mpsw Tue 24-Jan-17 19:33:11

Vanishingly unlikely to be a woman.

Unless they have requested each other.

But even the RAF (and its starry hotels and soft towels) would look askance at a married person shacking up obviously with a colleague.

Babyboy15 Tue 24-Jan-17 19:47:22

We're not married but we have been together for 3 years.

Penfold007 Tue 24-Jan-17 20:28:07

Mixed sex sharing of multi occupier rooms is prohibited so as said above unless its a basha very unlikely to share and especially not when guests in the UAE.
But seriously OP why wouldn't you be happy, do you not trust DP to act like a professional serviceman?

Babyboy15 Tue 24-Jan-17 21:20:38

No. He's there for 4 months I think it's completely inappropriate for him to have a female roomate.

BiBi8 Tue 24-Jan-17 21:24:24

It would be completely inappropriate so it wouldn't happen, don't worry.

meditrina Tue 24-Jan-17 21:27:35

He won't have a female room-mate.

You can get into a serious disciplinary mess for unauthorised shagging sharing.

If he's going to be unfaithful whilst away, he'll find a way and it'll be nothing whatsoever to do with the designated room-mate.

I was wondering why this is on your mind. Has he said something? Or are you having suspicions?

Babyboy15 Tue 24-Jan-17 21:31:06

He's just said he think's he's getting a female roomate tomorrow and I said he better not be.

BiBi8 Tue 24-Jan-17 21:32:57

That would not go down well with me. I would have suspicions to be perfectly honest. Even if they did assign my DP a female roommate, he would refuse as he wouldn't want to put me in that position.

Penfold007 Tue 24-Jan-17 21:41:40

He winding you up especially in Dubai.

meditrina Wed 25-Jan-17 07:39:37

Maybe he's adopted a puppy?

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