call ssafa and the padre in the first instance - ssafa for practicals, and the padre for talking things through. if you are blue (think you are) there will be unit welfare officer. but they are usually pretty crapola if i'm honest for blue types.
hope you're ok-ish. you don't need to make any decisions until you're ready. just talk through. x
my friend has just gone through this and you can try the british legion too they helped her loads, even paid her bond and first months rent for her so she could rent then claim housing benefit. Our UWO was useless and the hive just gossiped about it so she went through SSAFA and they told her to go the british legion.
Hope you are OK remember we are all here for support