DD1 was exclusively breastfed till 6 months, then we started A. Karmel's purée recipes. She was always tricky when it came to solid food, ate tiny amounts, refused things she previously had wolfed down etc.
As she grew into a toddler, she became pickier and pickier -- which I thought was normal, a developmental stage, refusing food as a way of asserting independence etc.
She is now 2.9 and has a very limited repertoire of food she will eat:
- tortellini stuffed with cheese (no sauce)
- beans on toast (occasionally)
- potato gnocchi
- cheese sandwiches
- chinese spring rolls
- bread, any sort
- breadsticks
- tinned asparagus (highly salted, I know, I know)
- er, that's it.
If I offer other food, she just doesn't eat. I have tried persuasion, bribery, etc. - totally demoralising experience all round. I have tried just letting her eat what she wants. I give her something she likes and let her choose how much she wants to eat (the answer: not very much).
I see other Mums insisting that their DC eat "two more spoons" before leaving the table, but my DD just refuses and I cannot force open her mouth (can I??).
I hear Mums say, "I give him the veggies first whzen he is hungry then add the pasta / meat / whatever foodstuff is preferred once he has eaten the veggies" but this does not work either.
I hear Mums say "I make fajitas / pancakes / bolognese sauce / etc and throw loads of veggies in there secrretly" - I have tried this, she refuses if she she sees even a mm of anything alien.
So, bottom line: I am not looking for new strategies on how to persuade her (don't think anything will work, TBH) but I would love some recipe and food ideas....stuff that your kids love, just to try to broaden her list of acceptable foods.
Any ideas?
I am bereft and feeling like a true food failure after starting off at birth with such high hopes and good intentions.