OK so today I had a brainwave following on from one of the posters pieces of advice.
I boiled up a few bits of penne pasta, cooled it down put it on a plate and in front of DS smear a little bit of PButter onto each one... and he ate it!... well the day has continued with a smear of PB to the following and all was eaten
Babybel Penne Pasta Mini Cocktail Sausages Potato Wedges Mini Pizzas
and they are all things I have offered but he has NEVER tried, I cant believe it!
So having felt like I have won the lottery, I am now thinking is this the right thing to do I mean will he start to refuse food with no PB on it.... I was plannin to reduce the amount over the next few mealtimes till will get to none and hopefully the fact that he sees them as familiar food that he likes will then mean he will carry on eating it.