My partner has an office job, something they like to do as a stupid right of passage is take a photo of your partner and mock it up to look as though a sexual act is being performed......stupid I know.
I don't use social media and photos of myself on line are rare.
However DH has just posted a snap of me out lunching with the kids, my mouth is open and it's exactly what a certain co-worker has been waiting on.
My DH has already expressed he will not be happy if such a photo of me appears, I too have posted on my DH Facebook page that I wouldn't accept it.
Said co-worker has since messaged DH to say "this photo (of me) is the one"
I'm sitting here raging, I'm a mother and a wife but most of all I'm a women with self respect and I think this type of so called banter is disgusting!! How degrading to me, also I don't work there! I feel unable to even defend myself!
AIBU?? Is this all office banter and I just don't get it!
I feel like going down to the office tomorrow and calling him out on his childish, pathetic behaviour.
Thanks everyone, as I have never worked in an office I needed to know DH and myself weren't the unreasonable ones, I almost felt like I am supposed to simple laugh it off! Somehow See the funny side but I actually don't even find it mildly amusing.
I feel this is a rubbish position for my DH, small local company, clearly not a great management structure, not any sort of HR dept.
And I'll give you all an example, the owner of this company posted a previous mock photo on his social media. As it was such great "banter"