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feeling down after coming back from hols,

(7 Posts)
fostermum Sat 06-Aug-05 21:00:20

i have only been back a week but i feel so down DH and i are seperating which is what we both want,so cant understand why i feel so low,

Lonelymum Sat 06-Aug-05 21:05:06

Fostermum, I think it can be quite normal to feel this way. I had a weekend in Rome last year (only a weekend!) and it was so lovely, I felt depressed when I got back. You must have had a lovely holiday!

Chandra Sat 06-Aug-05 21:07:57

Well, I believe that even if you both agreed to a separation, there are so many changes ahead that I think is only natural to feel a bit down. Be patient with yourself and allow some time to assimilate the changes.

fostermum Sat 06-Aug-05 21:30:56

it all seems to be hitting me at once i just want to get back on that plane and leave it all behind me

MrsGordonRamsay Sat 06-Aug-05 21:33:29

As I said yesterday, allow yourself time to grieve.

You loved each other once very much.

dropinthe Sun 07-Aug-05 21:42:33

Dis you argue on holiday?

fostermum Mon 08-Aug-05 19:27:10

no i went alone, to get some space work out what i wanted which i did,now i feel sort of deflated in a way

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