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i need a good cry

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charleepeters Thu 02-Jun-05 20:55:31

god i am so stressed tonight, i have pmt after 5 days of being on, which is unlike me but i think thats what it is.

ds took 2 hours to go to bed hes asleep now but took him that long as he screamed everytime i left his room.

came home this afternoon to my dog ripping my sofa apart now i have to rehome her and i cant fnd any where.

had an argument with dp, he thinks we dont have a life becasue we cant affoed to go on holiday, we have a 3oo pound overdraft which we use each month but still managet to treat ourselves each month to small things, im happy with our finacial affairs hes not, i feel like telling him to sod off.

i dont know why else im stressed jsut feel like screaming and throwing things about. needed to let this get off my chest before i shout at dp and wake ds.

thans for listning x

tamula Thu 02-Jun-05 21:01:32

Aww babe, sorry your feeling a bit low tonight. We all have our crap days, pour yourself a glass of wine and just relax, dont think, dont talk, just kick back and relax. Hope you feel better by the morning...



xx

bini Thu 02-Jun-05 21:44:24

sorry you're feeling so stressed. don't know what to say except i know what a lack of money is like, we haven't been on holiday since 2000. hang in there

cherith Thu 02-Jun-05 21:51:09

Im sorry your stressed. Is it me or is it quite an overwhelming, stressfull,emotionally renching and darn right hard being a mum. Especially when you get the days when nothing goes right, which is in fact most days. i am also very disorganized and finding it hard to find time to organize one self.

Mandymoo Thu 02-Jun-05 22:09:38

sending you hugs and cuddles over the internet!

I know what a strain lack of finances can put onto an already stressed relationship. Like you, we dont ever save our money but still manage to treat ourselves each month. You have to have a little treat now and then.

Take it easy and i hope the little one gives you an easy time tonight and tomorrow XX

starlover Thu 02-Jun-05 22:15:46

Charleepeters... you're near brighton aren't you?
we;'re meeting in preston park tomorrow if you want to come along?
we'll cheer you up!

tamula Fri 03-Jun-05 11:09:30

How you feeling in the light of a new day? I know life's trials and tribulations wont get better if you sleep on it but hopefully your feeling a little stronger and prepared?!



<<<hugs>>>

handlemecarefully Fri 03-Jun-05 11:14:36

Your dp is being daft - you sound like you are doing really well with your finances if you just have an iddly piddly little £300 overdraft.

Couldn't you save a few pounds every week towards going on holiday..and also go for the last minute deal option?

Do you really have to rehome the dog - is he a puppy or a grown dog. Puppies inevitably chew - can't you just provide him with plenty of safe things to chew?

handlemecarefully Fri 03-Jun-05 11:21:00

cheap as chips

charleepeters Fri 03-Jun-05 14:46:46

Thanks im feeling a bit better today, we have decided rather than go away on his week off were going to go out to different places everyday zoo, theme parks ect.

sorry i missed the brighton meet up i couldnt get transport but will come next time, i was feeling down last night an dp was annoying me but we kissed and made up, his dad is buying a condo in partugal at the moment and he said we cans tay there when we like so were saving for the fligths out there for next year. thanks for taking he time to listen to me whinge, im just praying ds goes down tonight ok he usually does probably having an off night last night. thanks again will be there if you need to whinge just let me know

MumOf10 Fri 03-Jun-05 18:47:11

Well chick

If your ever feeling stressed again, tell me or run yourself a nice relaxing bath and a big glass of wine and chillll!

Glad your feeling better!
xxx

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