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Pleaseplease could somebody talk to me, i can't stop crying.

(36 Posts)
ABitWrong Sun 30-Aug-09 20:26:15


llareggub Sun 30-Aug-09 20:26:47

what's up?

whyme2 Sun 30-Aug-09 20:27:19

What's happened?

chimchar Sun 30-Aug-09 20:28:07

a bit wrong? where are you?

ABitWrong Sun 30-Aug-09 20:28:19

I am depressed and ill and i can't cope

ABitWrong Sun 30-Aug-09 20:29:55

at home in bed

llareggub Sun 30-Aug-09 20:31:08

Please ring the Samaritans, they are really great. Can you reach a phone?

chimchar Sun 30-Aug-09 20:31:39

ill? like flu ill, or long term ill, or head not right ill?

llareggub Sun 30-Aug-09 20:32:07

08457 90 90 90 Samaritans

ABitWrong Sun 30-Aug-09 20:34:13

lost my voice last wednesday, really getting me down on top of depression and eating probs

can't phonesamaritans, costs too much from mobile, andlandline not private
am emailing them but it is slow

hairymelons Sun 30-Aug-09 20:34:42

Yes do call someone, the samaritans' 08457 90 90 90
In the meantime,tell us what's going on

chimchar Sun 30-Aug-09 20:36:19

oh sweetie..

is there anything that you can do that will lift you a little, or help you relax? you know, stuff that you know sometimes works?

watch a film? listen to the radio? try some relaxation? have a bath?

ABitWrong Sun 30-Aug-09 20:38:45

I am in bed with laptop, in thedark, that helps a bit

I had to stop taking ADs because I was taking too many

too many problems, don't know how to cope

ABitWrong Sun 30-Aug-09 20:39:31

I want company, I am lonely

I want a hug

chimchar Sun 30-Aug-09 20:42:46

here, its the best i can do at the minute! ((((())))) big huge non mn hug coming your way....

hairymelons Sun 30-Aug-09 20:44:42

ABW, don't know you at all but I know about feeling depressed.
Can you expand? If you don't want to that's fine

ABitWrong Sun 30-Aug-09 20:50:36

thank you

I just feel so hopeless and helpless
Everything feels enormous and insurmountable
I don't see how things can get better

I am supposed to be breaking up with my partner but he doesn'twant to move out and anyway we haven't any spare money

My children keep swearing at me andeach other and fighting and I hate it

I am exhausted, I can't keep going

and I want my voiceback

My eating problems are getting bad agsain

I want to hurt myself

chimchar Sun 30-Aug-09 20:54:12

you need a break...why don't you try to get some sleep...

do you have any support in rl? you sound like you have too much on your plate to deal with by yourself.

can you see your gp tomorrow?

chimchar Sun 30-Aug-09 20:56:07

i'm sorry..i need to go. my kids are calling me.

didn't want you to think i'd abandoned you.

take care. i'll be around in the morning if you want to chat.

ABitWrong Sun 30-Aug-09 20:56:30

I can't sleep yet, I need some quiet time without dcs

my gp is away for a week but I will see my art therapist on tues

hairymelons Sun 30-Aug-09 21:28:21

Back, sorry having connection problems we're off and on.
How are you feeling now? Does slow breathing help? I like quiet alone time too, but only with my hypnosis CDs, better than your own narrative.
Your situation sounds really difficult, do you have good RL support?

ABitWrong Sun 30-Aug-09 21:44:36

I have priceless friends but only one nearish

have stopped sobbing anyway!

hairymelons Mon 31-Aug-09 01:06:57

Glad you sound calmer, have been concerned whilst couldn't get online.
Hope you get some good sleep tonight and thimgs don't seem so overwhelming tomorrow.

chimchar Mon 31-Aug-09 08:04:53

morning a bitwrong... how you doing this morning?

ABitWrong Mon 31-Aug-09 08:38:50

I don't know how i can get through today without crying

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