I work with someone who due to marriage breakdown & loss of Grandmother had a breakdown about 10 years ago.
He took 12 months off work.
He returned to work, met a new lady (they've been together for about 9 years), & seemed to be doing well.
This all happened before I joined the company.
However he still has very "dark" moments.
I have now been promoted to manage him & while he is a lovely person & we get on very well I find him exhausting & exasperating.
I've been very lucky in my personal life not to have had to deal with mental health issues, & I don't really know how to deal with him.
The job is a pleasant job, very relaxed & laid back, yet he moans about EVERYTHING. He was looking forlornly out of the window the other day, someone asked him if he was OK & he said he just wanted to be out there, anywhere but in this office. I'm ashamed to say I snapped saying he should count himself lucky as my brother is redundant as from Friday & will have plenty of time to look out the window.
I love my job, & on a personal level like this person, but he's beginning to drag me down too.
Please don't judge me for sounding unsympathetic or unkind - its not intentional.
Any advice on how I can deal with him / my feelings?
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Help with a work colleague
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laurielou · 22/07/2009 09:46
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