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Mental health

very low, will anybody talk to me

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natts · 18/05/2005 20:09

Sad
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charleepeters · 18/05/2005 20:09

im here for you hun

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charleepeters · 18/05/2005 20:09

whats up???

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Lucycat · 18/05/2005 20:10

of course we will, what's up hon?

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pupuce · 18/05/2005 20:10

natts???????

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swiperfox · 18/05/2005 20:11

Hello...you ok?

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natts · 18/05/2005 20:12

hi, you will probably think i'm pathetic but I am so stressed at the mo. I started a thread about 3.pm and noone spoke to me. what a sado. thanks by the way

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BubblesDeVere · 18/05/2005 20:12

natts, come back.


Swiper, get on msn.

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darlingbud · 18/05/2005 20:12

natts -sorry to hear you are down. post a bit more about what it is that you are feeling and we will try to help.

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darlingbud · 18/05/2005 20:12

sorry X-post!!

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darlingbud · 18/05/2005 20:13

what thread did you start natts?

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pupuce · 18/05/2005 20:13

what was the thread?

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charleepeters · 18/05/2005 20:13

y you so stressed natts??? im sure talking about it will help get it off your chest, a problem shared is a problem halfed after all, oh god im turning into my mother! lol

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Nemo1977 · 18/05/2005 20:14

hi natts hugs hun for whatever is getting u down

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soapbox · 18/05/2005 20:15

I've just bumped it for you

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BubblesDeVere · 18/05/2005 20:16

Come on natts, chat to us, we might be able to help.

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soapbox · 18/05/2005 20:16

By the way - don't be shy about bumping your own thread - loads of people here do it unashamedly

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Titania · 18/05/2005 20:16

{{{HUGS}}} I know the feeling.....

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charleepeters · 18/05/2005 20:17

natts where u gone hun??????

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natts · 18/05/2005 20:22

I am trying to cope without the AD's because the last lot i was on gave me the most embarrasing sweats. Very embarrasing trying to help a mum breast fed whilst dripping all over her baby. I'm worried because i am working extra night shifts to pay for our wedding in september, and the more i do the more bills turn up to pay. i'm unhappy in my job and am trying to organise the path for a new and exciting career but in the mean time i feel frustrated at how things are in current job.maternity care assistant.
I have to plan everything down to the dot or because i am not so clever at decission making at the mo. and dinner went very wrong, so i went upstair in a strop,kids fed,left up to hubby sort of, we still haven't eaten and have no notion to start cooking now, any way trying to lose weight for said wedding and dress which probably won't fit. i know on the grand sceme of things this is a tad wha wha ish but tried to talk to future hubby and bless it's like talking to a brick wall

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natts · 18/05/2005 20:24

sorry i was writing, slow i know. havent got a clue how to bump threads

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soapbox · 18/05/2005 20:25

You just write 'bump' and then post

Now you've probably hit bed time routines!!!!

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charleepeters · 18/05/2005 20:25

aww natts i feel for you its hard when everything gets on top of you, the best thing to do is to sit down at a quiet moment and plan each little bit of your life individually untill your happy with what your going to do, cant you go on another ad, one that wont effect you? in the mean time were here for you as long as you need us xxxxxxxx

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soapbox · 18/05/2005 20:27

Natts - I'm no expert but I would have thought that you should see your GP to try a different kind of AD rather than just stopping them altogether!

Maybe you should start with a GP appointment??

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natts · 18/05/2005 20:28

kids in bed.my mum came over to day to say my sis is on ad. and went on about it all day. i felt really hurt becuase she never talks to me about how i've been. do feel sorry for sis,i'm not a selfish cow

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darlingbud · 18/05/2005 20:29

OK - one thing at a time. Question - can you do anything about the job now or is it worth staying put to get money for wedding then considering a change then? Why worry about a job and a wedding at the same time? Get the wedding done first - enjoy that then concentrate on something else.

Next - if last lot of AD's gave you sweats - tell the GP. Some people have to try a couple before they find the right one for them (I have had three different ones) - DO NOT try without them if they are making you feel down again and definatley DO NOT go cold turkey and just stop them.

The bills would turn up no matter if you had a wedding or not. Good that you are trying to earn more money. is there anything extra you can do? sell stuff at car boots or on ebay for example?

Don't worry about dinner - if it was so bad cook something else or ask someone else in the household to do it.

I make lists too - many people have to write things down - carry on doing that if it helps you organise and remember things.

Hope this has given you a few things to think about.

HUgs to you - I know exectly how you feel - in fact I think you are me 12 months ago!!

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