I don't want to be identified so have changed my name for this post. (sorry)
My best, but long distance friend is currently really ill. She's just found out and is understandably terribly upset, angry and finding it hard to cope. obviously I've been joining in with everyone else, trying to listen to her and help her feel less alone and so on, but it's taking its toll, somehow...I don't really have anyone I can talk to about it, and it's making me feel so miserable all the time, so drained - we usually talk every few weeks, and email maybe once a week, we both have kids and have known each other a long time.
This must sound incredibly selfish but I feel so low, and am taking it out on my children...I'm exhausted from thinking about it all and crying and also trying not to cry, as there's no time for it - the children are always here. I can't cope with anything, I'm wondering whether others have felt like this, whether it will pass, or just get worse and worse.
I'm sorry to post about something so sensitive, and hope not to offend anyone - just feel like I am falling apart at the seams, and it's not even about me
My poor friend must feel a million times worse. i don't want to lose her
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Coping with a close friend's illness
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LucyMinter · 06/07/2009 06:08
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