I am a stay at home Dad in conservative Bavaria. I've been here eight years now, I live around reasonably affluent people and have everything I mostly need. I'm into gardening and growing herbs, veg and fruit.
My trouble is the lack of anyone on my wavelength. There is only one other man in our town who is a Brit SAHD but he works part time. I have no chance at 42 of ever finding a job - I travelled a lot to interesting places as a computer mapping person and was told I was very good at it then.
Some nice lady at the kindergarten gate this morning said I look terrible and yes I drank a few beers last night but it wasn't just that - the last two nights I haven't slept properly, and I didn't drink much beer.
Just as women as mums feel pretty undervalued I feel in my role here even lower in value to anyone. How can one regain self esteem? I feel nuts talking out to the web but there really seems to be no one out there in my boat.
Please help.
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The loneliness of parenting abroad
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Maninadirndl · 26/06/2009 09:51
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