can't take much more! :(

[sparklymieow]

Some of you may have read my thread about my neighbours, I am feeling so drained and tired, DH is in deep depression and won't leave the house, I am trying to keep things as normal for the kids as possible, but they are wondering why daddy won't take them to school etc, I feel like I have been hit by a hammer, and can't do this much more, waiting for the comminutty policeofficer to phone me so I can get a letter so we can move as an emergnacy, the kids are fighting and screaming and I keep crying,

[tiffini]

it is so unfair that you should be the one to move, especially as you have done so much to the house. Riff-Raff always seem to get better treatment from Housing Associations they just click thier fingers and get what they want, makes me so

[sparklymieow]

TBh, I thik its the only option we have, if we stay and fight and manage to get them evited, they have too many 'friends' in the street and in the area who will make our lifes hell anyway.....

[tiffini]

that is what i mean they always win one way or another, the decent folk get crapped on all the time

[sparklymieow]

I can't even get Dh to go to the doctors, he is too scared

[jjash]

feel for you sparklymieow .I had drug dealer neighbour from hell for 4 years .Had loads of arguments and he threatened me when i was 8 months pregnant .I know how life destroying it can be .Are your HA sticking to their anti social behaviour policy ? I dont know what to suggest but to keep pushing for a move .I am still going through complaint procedure over my HA attitude.

[tiffini]

oh the poor blokei hope you get a move real soon, it's not much fun when you cant let your kids play in the garden through the summer.

[sparklymieow]

its very life destroying, It hurts to walk up and down the stairs because I feel so weak. I have contant shakes and feel tired.

[tiffini]

Have you seen a doctor sparklymieow, sound like you might be having a nervous breakdown.

i hope that does'nt offend you, that is not my intention.

[sparklymieow]

not offenced at all. I am going to see a doctors on monday.

[sparklymieow]

hardly eating either, I cook the food and then after a few bites I feel sick..

[BubblesDeVere]

Where are you sm?

[sparklymieow]

herts

[tiffini]

I hope he can help you out with a letter, that should help.

[misdee]

YOU'LLFADE AWAY.

get the gpto come out for dh. in a wayhe could become agrofobic(scuse the spelling).

iwant to come and lookafter you like you do for me but cant escape atm.

[sparklymieow]

am eating some chicken stirfry thing at the mo. slowly getting though it

[sparklymieow]

I felt ok yesterday knowing they weren't in, but knowing they are outside today makes me feel sick in the depth of my tummy.....

[misdee]

just think, u may geta lovely more suitable place soon. why dont u go and declutter in preparation for moving quickly.

[sparklymieow]

because I don't have the engery, and no boxes.. also have lots of stuff that we carbooted the other day, and is in the way. Need to get to the chartity shop but can't face them outside...

[tiffini]

is your DH even more on edge when you are out? Is he with the same GPsurgery as you, if so you can have a word with the Doc on Monday to try and arrange a home visit for him. The GP might be more inclined to do a home visit once he/she has seen you, and understand the problem more.

[misdee]

do u want a night out? obviously be discreetabout going out atnight if u think they'llstart on your dh once your gone.

[sparklymieow]

buut if the car ain't there they will realise that I'm not there.

[misdee]

we will get lisa/mumto come as well and they can drive?

[sparklymieow]

he is on edge all the time, he is scared they will get him and kill him.

[sparklymieow]

can't do any phoning today because its the weekend, that makes me feel terrible too, and I end up crying down the phone to the SW, housing officers, homeless dept etc etc.

[sparklymieow]

we did tidy up last night and clean all the floors, we had let it get terrible, just getting the engery to do it...