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Mental health

Why can't life give me five bloody minutes to get back up before kicking me in the face again........

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swiperfox · 10/05/2005 20:21

It was all going pretty well.

You may know we are hoping to get a house next week.

One of dp's deals just cancelled and he's lost £1300. Our deposit. Fuck.

The company i got a loan from ages ago couldn't get hold of me over £16 so they called my Mum and my Nan who now aren't talking to me for getting them 'involved'.

I've F*ing had enough.

Sorry for swearing.

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stressedmummy · 10/05/2005 20:41

On no! Poor you SF.
Life is a sh*t at times isn't it?
If its any consaltation, I am having a VERY horrible day too.

stressedmummy · 10/05/2005 20:42

I am now on my 2nd bacardi in a vain attempt to cheer myself up!

elsmommy · 10/05/2005 20:42

Have a nice big bar of choccy

swiperfox · 10/05/2005 20:44

i have eaten all the chocolate in the house lol am now onto the crisps!!! Whats up stressedmummy?

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almostanangel · 10/05/2005 20:46

swiper what have i told you?????? dont let the bas*ards grind you down...............

fairyfly · 10/05/2005 20:46

Personally i'm under the impression that its because
one day lots of wonderful things will happen to counteract it, my mother thinks thats heaven, i still have a sneeking suspicion it's going to result in my clothes falling off at a firemans convension

sorry your having a rough time of it, hang on in there, remember if things can go horribly wrong then they can go wonderfully right too

stressedmummy · 10/05/2005 20:47

See the thread titled "Not having a good day & want to run away from everything"
It is a long post!

stressedmummy · 10/05/2005 20:49

Alcahol is helping me a tiny bit ATM!

swiperfox · 10/05/2005 20:49

but its the mouse house Angel!!!!!!!!

Things have gone very badly for us for the last 3 years. I thought in the last week that this was it - everything was coming together and we were finally going to get a break for once. But no. Some F**er has to go and ruin it all again.

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stressedmummy · 10/05/2005 20:51

I don't know what to suggest.
Life is a sh*t at times, that's 4 sure.

swiperfox · 10/05/2005 20:52

Isn't it just!!

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fairyfly · 10/05/2005 20:53

it's hard when you get a kick and your still reeling form the last kick. personally i just try and not put it all together in one unit anymore and deal with each new problem seperately, let the past go a little it makes you a little stronger

stressedmummy · 10/05/2005 20:55

I have only stopped crying in the last 30 mins, since I began at 3.30pm & that is only thanks to the alcahol!

Jzee · 10/05/2005 20:57

Yip, I used to get down about day to day stuff, but that was before I was diagnosed with a critical illness. Honestly, the little blips in life are not worth getting you down.

almostanangel · 10/05/2005 20:58

swiper i dont have any faoths ,,,but i belive in fate if your meant to get that house you will if not then its not the right one so wait hunny ,,,,,,,,,,listen the sh*t i have been though in the past year must be for a reason,

almostanangel · 10/05/2005 20:58

faiths!!!!!!!

LGJ · 10/05/2005 21:01

I did prepare a post telling you that these things go in cycles........with loads of examples from my life from the last 4 years..then I realised I was self counselling and I had prepared a massive post that was F**K all help to any one, not even me

So take it as read, I know where you are coming from.

swiperfox · 10/05/2005 21:03

Thanks guys. You're all so right. It's just because I've been a bundle of nervous energy since Saturday and that's why I'm feeling this 100 times more than i normally would.

I'm a big believer in fate and thats why i thought this was going to work out..... DP got his biggest deals ever the other week at work which meant we had the money to move - it was a last minute decision on Friday to move. The mouse house came on the market literally while he was in the estate agents so the agent offered it to him, we went to see it and its perfect.... its all too good to be true so i guessed that it was fate the way it worked out.......

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almostanangel · 10/05/2005 21:06

imagine your on a beach and you walk into the sea ..........try to stop the waves coming no matter how much you push scream shout and cry they still keep coming so relax and ride them,,,,,,,,,,,eventually you will get where you are going

fairyfly · 10/05/2005 21:07

tbh the best thing we can learn is how to deal with ups and downs ( not major tragedies) because they will never ever not hit anyone, its part of being human

AngelCakeUmm · 10/05/2005 21:11

AAA i like your example i will remember that [sile]

AngelCakeUmm · 10/05/2005 21:11

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almostanangel · 10/05/2005 21:14

another one is dont complain about the dark .light a candle....

blueteddy · 10/05/2005 21:18

And go & pour yourself a drink!
I am just finishing my 3rd!

swiperfox · 10/05/2005 21:25

I could murder a drink. Only got a bottle of JD though and i cant drink it neat lol

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