My mother is a voluntary patient in a psychiatric hospital. She is depressed and suicidal. I know that the staff are all trying to do their best for her, and I do believe she will recover, because she always has before.
The consultant is thinking about sectioning her next week if the newest drugs don't work and she doesn't agree to ECT voluntarily. He told us so himself.
I have been to see my mother this morning and she is carrying around a sheet of paper which she says a nurse wrote and printed out for her. It is supposed to stop her worrying (ha! enough Diazepan to stun an elephant isn't stopping her worrying). Among other things (in really shocking grammar from an educated person) it says that she will 'never ever have to go to a locked ward, be sectioned or have a nasogastric tube'.
(The tube bit is because she wants to starve herself to death and doesn't want to be fed through a tube.)
Mum already distrusts the staff and thinks they are plotting against her. The promise on the paper is a load of rubbish as her consultant is thinking seriously about sectioning her and we hope he will - she's been sectioned before and treated with ECT without her consent and it WORKED. She was well and happy for years afterwards.
We have been trying so hard to reassure Mum for weeks now while being truthful with her. It's very hard work and now I find a nurse telling her a pack of lies IN WRITING. When they do section her this is only going to confirm her belief that she can't trust anyone! Is this really the proper way to treat an irrational and very distressed patient?
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Should a nurse be lying to a mentally ill patient in writing?
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l39 · 12/05/2009 13:32
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